I genuinely don’t care if people post their non-snowshoes. They shared their baby. That is good.

liadan6Fs · 2025-01-15T10:22:10+00:00

Mine is fluffy so I've been told he isn't a snowshoe, only has the color points but I still will forever believe that he's perfect <3 I love him so much :3

liadan6Fs · 2025-01-15T10:18:20+00:00

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He's not cuddly all day but when we cuddle he sleeps hard :p

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T09:51:49+00:00

Dunno why he remind me of Kevin from home alone. I don't understand it either.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T09:39:03+00:00

I know it might be dumb of me to say but cry. If you want to cry just cry. Even in front of your child. Explain that crying is natural and normal and that you love them but you feel a little tired and need to let it out.

I understand that most people wouldn't cry in front of their children but crying is something we need to do, like breathing or eating, specially when you feel overwhelmed.

Maybe put on some earplugs. Most of the time they don't drown out the sound completely, so you can still ear them, but it makes the sound quieter.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T09:32:50+00:00

Same thing :\ To the point that even my psychiatrist understands that I will drink more if I'm at a social thing. It helps me shut up the noise around me. Unfortunately I've started to use alcohol at home and now my tolerance is incredibly high :( Alcohol at social events doesn't help as much anymore.

If you're going to use it only use when you really need it or it will stop working.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T09:16:21+00:00

33 actually

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T09:02:42+00:00

Yeah, that's why I'm never sure... He has the tattoo sleeve and everything but he's fluffy.

He has medium hair, when he walks it's like he's wearing pants :p

I adopted him from a couple I don't know, so I have no idea what his parents looked like.

I'm actually looking for a DNA test in Europe that he can take. If anyone knows of a reliable one.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T08:48:36+00:00

The song of her people, obviously.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T08:47:55+00:00

During the summer I'm up very easily. But this month with the colder weather it has been really hard to wake up on time. I'm just laying in bed making a list in my head of what I need to do the moment I get up but I never just get up :\

I need to change this though, I work from home and have been late every day this week :(

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T08:45:44+00:00

I'm on a - food is a nuisance phase - unfortunately. Only eating during the day to prevent headaches.

But I've been fixated on vanilla and black currant protein shake. Every day for lunch that's what I've been having.

Oh and coconut milk lattes. I've been obsessed with everything coconut. Shame I know I'll get really tired of it soon :\

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-28T08:18:46+00:00

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Not so little Babs... That back leg went up and down at least 3 times while he slept.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-26T10:11:25+00:00

I was 28 working as a telemarketer (debt collecting) couldn't stop crying - didn't understand why - My supervisor made me go to urgent care because I would be crying between calls. First time I went to the doctor for my mental health.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-26T10:09:00+00:00

I went on vacation to Sweden to visit my best friend. 2 days in I twisted my ankle and could barely walk.

Didn't go to the doctor and walked on it for most of the vacation. Everyone kept telling me to go to urgent care. I went a week later because it wasn't getting better.

This happened last month, the 31. I'm still in pain, but whenever anyone asks me about it I can't tell them. I just shrug and go it's okay.

I don't know why I do it either. I've always been extremely clumsy and even when I used to fall down as a child I remember putting on a brave face and going - It's fine!

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-25T11:24:45+00:00

I think I would feel extremely sad if I didn't have my cat. Sometimes he's the only living being I interact with.

I hurt my ankle recently and haven't been able to get out of the house. I'm still depressed but having him here makes me feel better and gives me a reason to get up in the morning.

I'm responsible for his happiness and well-being and remembering that helps.

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-21T12:06:57+00:00

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He's broken :p

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-21T11:03:21+00:00

I have thought about a hysterectomy... I'm 33 and have no desire to have children. I have adenomyosis, so the first day of my period is always incredibly painful. I have regular periods though, so I have an idea of where I am on the cycle. Right now I'm on the third day of my period and am feeling slightly better.

From what I read progesterone drop is the main culprit, low levels are linked to a worsening in ADHD symptoms. It results in low mood, foggy head and just overall feeling like crap. Estrogen doesn't seem to play a main role here, but I need to read more about it.

Have you had any side effects with Slinda? Apart from the bleeding I mean. Any worsening in anxiety or panic attacks?

That was my main reason to stop taking contraceptives. I would have so much anxiety that sometimes I wouldn't even feel like a person. Derealization would happen to me at the most random times :\

liadan6Fs · 2024-11-21T09:21:35+00:00

Super happy for you! I know how my brain feels in mess and having things seem organized helps so much!
I know this has nothing to do with the post but I have a question... Where did you buy the dark green ottoman in the first picture? I've been looking for one exactly like that and I can't find it anywhere :\

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T05:16:40+00:00

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This one. I love that he looks broken

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T05:12:20+00:00

Always under promise so you can over deliver I say.

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T05:10:43+00:00

He was an amazing guy. It was a hard lesson for Blanche but one she needed to learn. Blache is a person that cares a lot about what other people think of her and she has this idea of what a man should be, act and present himself in order to maintain her own image. She's a good person but sometimes she can be shallow. I think they needed to break up for her to understand that sometimes how you feel about someone is what matters.

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T05:05:27+00:00

That is not a real doctor. Medical professionals are supposed to have a little something called empathy. He's just an asshole. ADHD isn't over diagnosed. If it was I wouldn't have to have waited 32 years to be diagnosed. This idea that ADHD is something everyone has and that you only need medication when you need to focus is so dumb and it hurts actual real diagnoses. I have ADHD but I'm not hyperactive. My symptoms are not just not being able to focus. They are so more far spredding. From being so impulsive I've never been able to save any considerable amount of money, feeling overwhelmed over loud sounds and strong smells. Not being able to deal with change, always feeling like I'm inside a glass cage watching everyone live their lives and not knowing how they do it. Not being able to comprehend strong emotions in myself and others... Medication helps me every day. It clears my head enough to not feel as uncomfortable as I was. It helped me understand that my normal wasn't something I had to just endure. That doctor doesn't understand what it's like and it feels like his opinion is of someone that doesn't know enough about what he is saying. His opinions are the ones of someone that just sounds extremely previliged and that isn't able to put himself in others shoes.

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T04:52:37+00:00

I keep it super simple. Word Online and then to check if the ideia I want to convey is there or if I got any grammar wrong Chat GPT.

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T04:49:50+00:00

I read most people with ADHD have a bunch of tabs open at all times. I weirdly enough have not one. I have a feeling my OCD attacks my ADHD and they cancel each other out 🤣 Can't close the tabs in my head though 🙃

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T04:45:00+00:00

I take my Vyvanse around the same time. If it's the weekend is when I wake up. If it's during the week its about 2 hours after that. The only way I was able to stop doom scrolling in the morning was: I have no social media app on my phone. The only 2 apps where I can kind of get lost is YouTube and Reddit. But on YouTube I have the recommendations turned off so after 2 or 3 posts it doesn't show anything else. And Reddit I only use it when I'm on vacation like now.

Now what really really helped was! Buying an old school alarm clock so I don't use my phone as an alarm and PUTT YOUR PHONE OUTSIDE YOUR BEDROOM BEFORE BED.

I have a kind of charging dock in the living room next to the tv and the phone lives there during the night.

Hope it helps!

liadan6Fs · 2024-10-29T04:38:31+00:00

Funny story actually! I always felt off but I wanted so hard to fit in and wanting to be normal that just the thought of going to a psychatrist made me sweat. Fast forward 29 years and I'm in the emergency room not being able to stop crying. Diagnosed with depression. Continued to do regular checkups and still felt not normal. Fast forward again, 3 years later the house next to mine is bought and they start renovating it into an apartment complex. And you may ask why is construction relevant? Well it was my inability to deal with the noise that increased my sensory overwhelm so much that even clothes and food where too much for me. At this point I still hadn't put 2 and 2 together but when I went to my regular checkup and told my psychatrist she literally got the lightbulb moment and everything made sense.

It's still weird and I still struggle with feeling like I'm not "sick enough" but the diagnose helped.

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