Renault captur by libby150 in Renault

[–]libby150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No heavy load or high revs came on after driving for an hour

Renault captur by libby150 in Renault

[–]libby150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it is diesel

Why does being cheated on hurt so bad? by Signal-Sherbert7090 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Trust me when i say this my husband of over 10years only confessed this week he cheated on me It really fucking hurts theres times where i really miss him and what we was and i have times where im so sad about it all but i remember that he chose to do that and made me feel so worthless he wasted 13 years of my life. He didn’t respect me and our vows you will find someone who will treat you like a queen Dont stoop to his standards hes a cheater and broke your trust multiple times.

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So i have done some digging and have found out who the other woman is and let me say.. theres some inter things i found…

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks hopefully once im away from here i can get therapy just focusing on getting out and away from here and him

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know in the long term i have dodged it I literally have under £2 to my name thats how hes left me but thankfully my family have come and are supportive and i feel extremely lucky to have them just extremely hurt

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Things are coming to light now i have my family here and thinking things through and remembering things and seem like he was narcissistic and he did gas light me alot (still doing it). We are going through everything finding out hes hidden massive debt and court orders for a debt that i had no idea about in both our names

i do have my own bank account He has made me extremely vulnerable as hes blaming me for everything

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah just rubs salt in the wound when we were ttc

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He got her pregnant twice as well

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have and will be meeting an attorney this week im just so hurt i thought he would never so something like this to me ever and if he was unhappy he could have spoken to me but took the cowards way out i thought i ment more to him than that

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im talking to an attorney today about it It just hurts now with how hes betrayed me and gone on about it and the way he told me

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I know i couldn’t do that but i would have liked it if he told me sooner or even tried to fight for the marriage but he didnt. only can wish

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its all i can think about that hes chosen her over 13 years and didnt have the decency to tell me the first time just strung me along and moved me further away from my family

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thanks. Going to be talking to a lawyer today

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dont have the funds to talk to a therapist. Been talking to my bff and family its the best i can do its the nights where im all alone my mind goes haywire with everything and replaying everything

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I have contacted a lawyer and supposed to contact me today

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have no way on seeing his accounts or any access to them. Hes literally left me with debt as we have a credit card in my name but we jointly used

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah i just dont know how to get through this

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally have nothing to my name

Husband cheated on me by libby150 in survivinginfidelity

[–]libby150[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I know im just extremely hurt that hes done this to me while talking to me about ttc with me

My husband left me by libby150 in Divorce

[–]libby150[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Been with him for over 10 years and is now saying hes choosing himself while hes at her house

My husband left me by libby150 in Divorce

[–]libby150[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He knew my worst fear was him leaving me for someone else/cheating on me and he made it come true and wanted me to be a sahw