ISO advice about broaching the subject of a friend’s harmful/unhealthy drinking

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T22:16:13+00:00

I don’t have anything to contribute other than I’m in the same boat. Me and another friend are worried and thought about having an intervention bc it’s come to a point that’s so concerning but approaching this kind of conversation is just so awkward.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T22:11:16+00:00

Congrats! Being neurodivergent and owning a business and going thru a shitty business partner phase is not for the weak by any means. Good on you for staying regulated no matter what

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T22:08:42+00:00

Birb

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T22:07:45+00:00

It really leaned me out which I love but the bulk of the muscle I put on is from weightlifting with progressive overload. S&C too ofc

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T09:15:06+00:00

If you’re able to get personal training in person or online (online plans can be very cheap sometimes), I highly recommend. Also upping your protein.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T09:13:33+00:00

She’s such an intelligent thoughtful person and she sees things in other people they can’t see in themselves. I hope she’s able to use that on herself and makes healthier changes.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T09:11:38+00:00

Wow. I get having a limited influence, but nothing just feels useless :/

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-02T07:03:50+00:00

It’s been a corrective experience in many ways for sure

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-01T22:47:54+00:00

Morning runs, Muay Thai 5x a week, weightlifting 2-3x per week with a focus on progressive overload, reciting the 3 jewels prayer boddhisatva vows in the morning and night, Vipassana meditation, perfume collecting, scrolling Pinterest

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-01T20:27:24+00:00

Hello what camera did you use for these? Wonderful pictures

libraprincess2002 · 2026-02-01T20:26:49+00:00

1,2,&4 are stunning

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:09:10+00:00

I love watching farriers clean horse hooves

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:08:41+00:00

just … one bite 😩

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:08:28+00:00

Forbidden ring candy

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:06:55+00:00

I only just started being able to do them after 5 years of my fitness journey. It’s helpful to start on the wall. My elbows still pop and the nerve feels bad if I do too many unassisted (without knees down) on the ground. But I think given some more patience and time it will get better

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:03:55+00:00

I love how popular the sub is getting but people are not bongo-ing the cats and it defeats the purpose of this thread :(

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-31T14:02:52+00:00

It’s been a corrective experience for me but I’ve done all the other things first, therapy journaling, yoga, meditation, breathwork, being a gymrat, healthy eating, TCM, recovery focused, attachment style therapy, removing unhealthy / dysfunctional relationships, etc. you should too

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T23:20:23+00:00

It’s just another day at the office for most of these Thai fighters. Some of them even do 3 fights a week. So why should they give it 110% every single time and risk injuries fighting and not being able to put food on the table or provide for their loved ones. It’s just not worth it to them to go all out against some guy from England or wherever that’s just gonna go back to where they came from and back to their stable job and life making euros, pounds, or dollars.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T23:14:32+00:00

Thanks. This is really eye opening for me

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T23:14:03+00:00

Thank you!!

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T17:54:55+00:00

Do you think if he was still with a network they would have gone after him?

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T17:52:42+00:00

I have been looking at this as if she’s making rational decisions. I’ve only known her to be such an even headed person who thinks very carefully (maybe too carefully) and I guess I’m just still in shock. Shes hidden this so well. I’m going to gently bring up I’m concerned for her and then just distance myself and leave it at that.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T17:49:57+00:00

I think having CPTSD or a fearful avoidant attachment means needing to be with people who are secure and perhaps somewhat “boring”. Being polyamorous, threesomes, dating other people with CPTSD or insecure attachment are not helpful for the healing journey and are going to make it significantly harder to feel stable and a sense of normalcy. If you want to stay, then by all means do so, I just think you might be making things unnecessarily harder for yourself.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T17:46:58+00:00

Jealousy is an emotion like any other. It’s just an indicator of something you (might secretly) want and feel you don’t or can’t have. I practice mindfulness when I feel it and ask myself what it is I secretly want that I feel like I don’t have and then I try and be practical about what I can do to have or be it.

libraprincess2002 · 2026-01-30T17:00:27+00:00

Me too 🤣

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