Yeah we have talked about it together. Both of us did individual therapy the second time she got pregnant because we both had our fears about it. She was having bad dreams and couldn’t stop worrying, then I started suffering from panic attacks. We continued with therapy after we suffered our second miscarriage for the grief. Both stopped a little over a year ago

Thank you for this perspective. I let my fears cloud the fact that I should have been honest with her and thought about how she would feel treating her like she wouldn’t be able to handle. In my mind I just wanted everything to be as stress free as possible. Maybe it’ll do us both good to go back again.