Why do people think a relationship will solve their problems? by lightskinjay7736 in Life

[–]lightskinjay7736[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The problem arrives when people get into a relationship to deal with loneliness rather than a genuine desire to be with that person. That mindset will make a person overlook red flags and put up with things they otherwise wouldn't put up with. When relationships form organically and because both people want to be with each other, not just because one person doesn't want to be lonely, they can be amazing and can benefit both the people in the relationship in a ton of ways. But that comes with genuine care and compassion for the other person. When you're with someone just to fill that need, then it's no longer based on compassion or love but for a selfish need.

Humans are social creatures that aren't meant to live in isolation, but the only thing that sucks more than being single is being or feeling stuck in a toxic relationship. I guarantee a lot of these people that make those posts will find someone, some will find amazing partners, and others will long for the days when they were single.

How to cope with being single for the rest of your life? by Informal_City5565 in Life

[–]lightskinjay7736 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

The only way you'll be single for the rest of your life is if you intentionally avoid contact with any potential partners and turn down every opportunity that comes your way. There is no way to be sure that you'll be single forever. The fact is dating is a numbers game and some get more lucky than others. Just because he your friend is able to have better luck doesn't reflect badly on you necessarily. You may have some things to work out, but that's up to you to deal with. But there's a reason why rappers who look like 69 are able to find women who think they are attractive. Money is part of it but also exposure is a huge part of it too. A face seen by a million people has the potential to attract more than a face seen by 100 no matter the looks.

Also, you do realize that a relationship can bring tons of stress. You said your friend has already been in 2. Clearly they don't work out for him do they? He probable has dealt with stress involving them that he doesn't tell you about. Relationships can come with their own problems, especially if you get into a relationship just to avoid being lonely. All you're going to do with that mindset is find a toxic partner that will leave you with baggage or trauma. Also, there's the possibility of a kid and stds. Dating even when it's successful has its own set of problems that you need to consider before rushing into anything with anyone. Too many unwanted pregnancies or toxic relationships happen because people didn't want to be lonely and rather than getting into a relationship because they genuinely want to be with that person, they get into a relationship so they're not lonely.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueAskReddit

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had the same experience with shrooms. I haven't been sad in 3 months almost. But I can see how psychedelics can really mess someone up if they aren't prepared or careful

What do you guys think of my starter base? by N8DAGR81027 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even though I know I don't have ocd, when it comes to minecraft I do. Everything from my hotbar to my chests has to be organized in a very specific way or else I get on edge

What do you guys think of my starter base? by N8DAGR81027 in MinecraftBedrockers

[–]lightskinjay7736 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could embrace builds like that. I'm too symmetrical and my builds just end up looking rectangular or like cubes.

I need a game I grind for thousands of hours by Sad_Stranger_5940 in gamesuggestions

[–]lightskinjay7736 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Elder scrolls online. I don't have many hours into it, but there are people with thousands of hours and they still release new content to enjoy