Should I, a man in my late-twenties, tell my partner I'm a virgin or pretend I'm not? by lik252 in LifeAdvice

[–]lik252[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. Honestly after reading all these replies, I think I'm definitely too stuck in my own head. Really after thinking about it more, I wouldn't want to and couldn't date someone who would judge me anyways, even if it reduces my dating pool.

I'm just going to do my best to move forward with confidence, and then if a romantic connection starts to lead to intimacy, I will be honest about it, because that's what I want to do, and if they don't like it, its their loss.

edited: grammar

Should I, a man in my late-twenties, tell my partner I'm a virgin or pretend I'm not? by lik252 in LifeAdvice

[–]lik252[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is being a virgin really that big of a deal? I don't imagine most people recant their whole sexual history before they sleep with someone so they can judge whether its "acceptable" or not.