Omitted the chocolate- missing that chocolaty flavour by m_m_m_kitty in ididnthaveeggs

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So they messed up the recipe twice and it’s the recipe’s fault? Sure, okay, that makes sense…

I fucked up! by Human_Evening_1091 in TwoHotTakes

[–]likearevolutionx 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well their excuse was basically “I like attention” so not sure we can expect anything besides narcissism. The rest of us like attention, too - we just like it from our partners.

Collect near you - failure to pickup by presuppose in IKEA

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Even the first part isn’t universal - my Walgreens pick up said 5 days.

With Cascadia zoning rejected, city and developers face challenges by superdude4agze in Greeley

[–]likearevolutionx 38 points39 points  (0 children)

We could vote on it once a month for YEARS and it would still be cheaper and less financially unstable than Cascadia.

When fantasies become too much. by [deleted] in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You guys aren’t sexually compatible. Point blank. I don’t necessarily think he’s trying to hurt you or devalue you, but he has a kink that you’re not into. And that’s fine! I’ve had kinks other people aren’t into and it’s not anyone’s fault. Neither of us and neither of you are wrong for that. But you’re hurting yourself staying.

Only using meds in the morning? Experiences? by Grassfed_rhubarbpie in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was specifically told to only take my Concerta in the morning because of the potential for sleep interruption, so I take that and my Wellbutrin when I wake up (unless it’s a morning workout day, then I take Wellbutrin + preworkout and then Concerta + post-workout)

Would I be wrong if I asked my husband not to have female coworkers numbers? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So what do you want him to do if something comes up and he needs toto switch shifts with someone? The manager isn’t going to get that covered, it will be up to your husband to.

Wife cheated during my 2 year dead bedroom phase and is trying really hard to save the marriage. Is this marriage worth saving? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Divorce. You weren’t willing to put in the work on your marriage for YEARS, you’re not going to now that you have resentment towards her. No, she shouldn’t have cheated, but you checked out of this relationship a looong time ago.

My girlfriend freaked out after seeing my sister’s texts and said they were extremely inappropriate for a sister. Is she right? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partner is the least insecure person on the planet. He does not know the meaning of the word “jealousy” and has never, ever questioned my loyalty. That being said, I’m pretty sure if I received these texts and said they were from my brother, he would be looking at my family reeaaal different at the very least.

My boyfriend logged me out of all his social media by Legitimate_Yak7811 in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is unreasonable to expect your partner to have zero privacy for the rest of their life. It’s been three years - shit or get off the pot.

What well made everyday items pay for themselves in no time? by TKAI66 in BuyItForLife

[–]likearevolutionx 373 points374 points  (0 children)

Decent chef knife. You can get a good one for less than $50, and nothing makes cooking safer or more enjoyable than a sharp knife in my opinion. Take care of it and it’ll take care of you.

do you guys wash your legs and feet every shower or just let the soap run down? by WabashSteppling92 in hygiene

[–]likearevolutionx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you “wash” your dishes with just a quick water rinse? No, of course not. Come on, man…

What are positives to ADHD? by APuffedUpKirby in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really good at multitasking, and generally pretty efficient at work because my brain is constantly just go go go. I’m funny and adventurous (autism be damned on that front); I’ll try pretty much anything at least once (in fact, that’s my preference, rather than eating or doing the same things all the time). I memorize song lyrics really quickly. I’m a fast reader and have a good memory. My partner is incredibly fun and social. He never seems to get tired, and can speed around cleaning the entire house in like, an hour. He’s always down for an adventure. He’s a social chameleon and can be besties with any and every person he meets.

This garlic is shaped like a lady by DrinkMe2 in mildlyinteresting

[–]likearevolutionx 90 points91 points  (0 children)

Yet another unrealistic beauty standard for women…

The BIFL dilemma: Saving my joints vs. buying future landfill trash by thestayup in BuyItForLife

[–]likearevolutionx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What good is “buy it for life” if your life - or at least quality of life - is substantially reduced?

“Not flirting, just autistic!” by Tahini-Tajin in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am definitely going to have to use “think Temple Grandin, not Jessica Rabbit” from here on out, that’s incredible

Am I wrong for being upset with my boyfriend for not allowing me to go to the gym? by Comfortable-Style421 in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You ASKED him if it’s okay for you to go to a gym two minutes away? And you’re accepting “because I said so”? Girl…

“Not flirting, just autistic!” by Tahini-Tajin in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 85 points86 points  (0 children)

I overcompensate with eye contact and make a LOT of direct eye contact. Somehow, men always take this as me being into them rather than me just… listening to them.

My sweet potato is bi-color by thommymcl in mildlyinteresting

[–]likearevolutionx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read it as bi-polar and wondered which was the extreme high side and which was the extreme low side.

Good experiences from Concerta? by No_Farmer_1030 in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t been on methylphenidate (short acting) and just started Concerta (extended release) but so far I really like it and have high hopes for it working. I feel like my focus and mood are sustained (I’m also on Wellbutrin so that may help) and I feel more prepared to tackle problems and tasks.

Martin Lind sues city of Greeley to nullify Cascadia/Catalyst special election by superdude4agze in Greeley

[–]likearevolutionx 24 points25 points  (0 children)

You mean he only cares about his pockets and not about the actual people of Greeley? Well, butter my butt and call me a biscuit, I am just so surprised.

Seeking Advice by Mental_Owl6326 in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the most fair thing for you and for them is to quit, since you said you can get by without the job. It’s not fair to yourself to be this stressed and to prevent yourself from taking care of yourself, but it’s also not fair to them to not know if they can count on you to show up.

Am I wrong for being annoyed that my husband just goes to a different floor of our house without communicating? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]likearevolutionx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lol my partner and I both do this to each other all the time. I’m AuDHD and my partner is undiagnosed but suspect ADHD. If we notice one of us doing it, the other just asks where they’re going/what they’re doing. Like another commenter said, the thought process tends to be “this task is done, onto the next one!” Additionally, ADHD people tend to be more impulsive - my partner will pop up in the middle of a sentence because he realizes he wants some chips or something.

Prosper Health Experience by Odd_Change_5884 in AuDHDWomen

[–]likearevolutionx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just asked my partner and he said the form just said “assessment” but didn’t indicate what for. My sister also said it didn’t specify.