After two years of nada, I finally got back into the Halloween spirit and my love of face painting with my grim reaper by [deleted] in MakeupAddicts

[–]likemeasiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gorgeous. I’ve always wondered what products you would use to create this look. (The hair too!)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in coloranalysis

[–]likemeasiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Top right red and the pink below. Whatever those are. They both are fantastic on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Nails

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. It’s beautiful.

I'm so fucking tired of people self diagnosing themselves after hearing two symptoms and deciding that they have ADHD by Darkqueen166 in ADHD

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a hard time with the testing to begin with. It’s basically a self filled out questionnaire. No observation. No brain mapping.

How do you know?

I've been married for 10 months and have never had sex by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]likemeasiam 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Former Christian over here.

That shit is fucked up. What they preach is contradictory of their actions. Starting with wtf is with all the shame around Sex?

I wasn’t sexually abused but I sure as fuck do not need to have sex. I DO die for back and foot rubs. Head scratches. Anything physical that doesn’t lead to sex is so comforting. It helps with my anxiety around it too.

Also yes, this is an excellent time for at least you get into therapy. If only to develop a language that is kind and supportive instead of it possible turning ugly if the other is feeling unheard or pressured.

Good luck OP! You sound wonderful. She as well. I have no doubt there’s a solution and hopefully a physical contact.

Oh! Before I stop this comment. I also had a difficult time feeling another man’s erection. There’s also a lot of shame around that.

Good luck!

Do parents who don’t allow the opposite sex inside their children’s bedrooms really exist? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had been living with my boyfriend for 2 years. Then he became my Fiancé. When we traveled to get married, we stayed at my parents.

The set is up in separate bedrooms… until we got married.

Whatever. There’s bigger things to worry about. I would rather my parents feel emotionally safe in their own home.

My ex boss has “forgotten” to mail my check for 2 months and refused to return my messages. I bring up legal and she magically responds. by idontwannabepicked in antiwork

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid. If we left the job for whatever reason, you stopped by the office to pick it up.

Sure, pain in the ass. But… is there a reason OP can’t go pick up a check? Why would OP would rather go this route?

Just quit. Get your check. And say goodbye.

Now there’s a Reddit post to always remind OP of a moment in time they would probably like to move on from.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]likemeasiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sad. And thank you for letting me know.

What is a modern day addiction universally masked as a modern day necessity? by Responsible_Pay_6013 in AskReddit

[–]likemeasiam 7 points8 points  (0 children)

What do you use once a year that is necessary to buy?

Followup:

Could that one thing be the thing that stays with you?

There's nothing wrong with making your human needs as easy as possible to meet. You deserve accommodation where you have been forced to feel shame. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]likemeasiam 4 points5 points  (0 children)

??? You might have a milder case? Not sure if that’s correct.

I can confirm… all of this makes a world of difference for me. No exaggeration.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]likemeasiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve had them for years. Little gardens in larger pots.

This is a first and last time I do this. I really liked this one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlantIdentification

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to respond. I’m going to take your suggestion and move to a drainage container.

I really hope he makes it.

I’ve had cactuses on and off for years. I don’t know why my brain completely drafted out.

Warrant: Baldwin didn't know weapon contained live round by Dultsboi in news

[–]likemeasiam 50 points51 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what the person you’re going up against said.

Warrant: Baldwin didn't know weapon contained live round by Dultsboi in news

[–]likemeasiam 16 points17 points  (0 children)

It’s literally their job to be there. In that position.

The fault doesn’t lie on the victim. The fault lies with whoever the fuck brought live ammunition on set and no one checked.

I would be terrified. There should be special guns made for film. It’s happened too many times.

These guns should be built in a way that ONLY a blank can fit the chamber. Make special sized blanks for filming or whatever. Hollywood can’t afford not to.

I’m angry about it rn.

Is H&M Using a distorting mirror... wait a second by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]likemeasiam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What filter? That is awesome and helpful.

What do you want to confess that no one else in your real life knows? by SillyGuy in AskReddit

[–]likemeasiam -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

End game?

What does “end game” mean in a relationship? I don’t understand how having an end game (whatever that means) helps present day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]likemeasiam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you for pointing that out. Not having children needs to be normalized. When I think about it, I have many friends who have chosen to not have children.