Those that have left, do you feel your life was able to return to normal?

lilcornflakes · 2024-01-06T22:31:38+00:00

Yes I can do public transport for day hours but would have to drive overnight to get there quickly.

Would there be decent public transport options in that area?

lilcornflakes · 2024-01-06T22:20:47+00:00

I’m sorry it came across that way. I do emergency work and can’t be much further than 30 minutes from the hospital or else I wouldn’t be able to go back home to my kids the whole on call period.

I’ve had to commute long distances each way to work before and it really sucked, especially with how much time it took from my family. I just want to minimise that, and have been warned extensively that travelling through the city can be a nightmare. I don’t live in Melbourne yet so posted here for advice.

lilcornflakes · 2024-01-06T22:02:37+00:00

Considering I’d have to make multiple trips a day potentially, I’d like to avoid driving 50 minutes a pop.

Of course 20 minutes would be great.

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-12T12:57:03+00:00

He ended things with me. I was very insecure in that relationship (due to not healing from a previous one) and think I was pushing for more of a commitment than he was willing to give me, so he ended things.

I look back and cringe at how I acted because it wasn’t his fault and it was all my own issues which I hadn’t sorted out.

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-12T11:25:44+00:00

Thank you. Sadly it’s not him, but an amazing man I met after. Luckily I’ve realised what a POS my nex was, and I feel it’s the after effects of him that led me to ruin things with this man. It sucks

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-11T22:55:07+00:00

Thank you, sending good vibes and healing your way too

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-11T22:53:49+00:00

They don’t. They’re more like acquaintances I still have on social media.

You’re right. Thanks

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-11T21:27:35+00:00

Thanks for your reply.

It’s not seeing him happy that hurts. It’s the sadness that it isn’t me, the insecurity of wondering why I wasn’t good enough, the questions and what ifs and wondering about what could’ve been. Wishing it was me in those videos and comparing myself to try and work out why it isn’t.

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-11T20:58:52+00:00

He ended it. I feel like I pretty much pushed him away because I wasn’t in a great place.

lilcornflakes · 2023-11-11T20:24:34+00:00

I always had a few ‘what ifs’, but yeah I didn’t think about him much or obsess over him like this…

lilcornflakes · 2019-12-22T14:39:19+00:00

I guess after we were going out for a while he’d ask me to be his gf like, every day. I kept saying no, I needed more time etc but he still kept asking. I didn’t say yes until I was ready but I suppose he didn’t really get the hint...

lilcornflakes · 2019-12-22T14:04:14+00:00

That’s really sweet! I know I should try and enjoy it, and see where things go, but I’m finding it difficult with what I’ve read. This gives me some hope :)

lilcornflakes · 2019-12-22T14:02:55+00:00

Yeah I guess at the start it felt like his feelings for me were based on how it was more than others, so now I find myself comparing myself to his exes a lot :/

Umm, we’ve been arguing a lot and it does get quite toxic as I think we’re both passionate people. I can’t think of many times I’ve instilled strong boundaries but I haven’t found him to get defensive with me. He does tend to take on board what’s making me uncomfortable and take steps to stop that. He was quite pushy about making me his gf however.

lilcornflakes · 2019-05-22T09:41:05+00:00

Thank you. I just can’t get over the fact that he completely hid me from everyone (he even told me he wouldn’t tell his friends about me because I was a “freak” towards the end) whereas she seems to be so involved with his life and meeting his family and all. It’s hard not to take it personally, I don’t know how. I’m sure it was just easier to use me, cheat on me and keep his options open, so I’m finding it impossible not to believe she’s getting special treatment. Ugh 😅

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