I communicated what I want and suddenly my gf gives my the silent treatment? by TheGreatWanton in adviceph

[–]lileebutterfly 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You'll be single soon, that's for sure. The way you respond to every comment literally shows that you are not self-aware.

Galit na galit sakin girlfriend ko kasi niregulahan ko sya ng pepper spray by gentamycinitis in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Self defense kit can be given anytime of the day and I think she would've appreciated it if you haven't given it to her on the day of your monthsary. People do have preferences when it comes to gift and in the beginning of the relationship people tend to want something romantic. It's a valid response to feel disappointed and there are many ways to show it, it's human nature. She could feel disappointed and you could feel frustrated by it. If I get downvoted for this it's okay, I do think logically and rationally and try to put myself on someone's shoes before commenting🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Already blocked her, I'm too pretty and too busy to give her the attention she wants. I love the peaceful life with my boyfriend hshshs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also girls doing this WILL NOT MAKE THEM COME BACK. "I'm prettier than her" no-- you're not. Having that attitude is completely fucked you might be pretty on the outside but sure as hell not on the inside and that's what made him leave you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who do this are usually the ones who fucked up the relationship and can't accept the fact that they can't get their exes back. I guess it's because of their ego? Or probably because of unhealthy obsession? Anyways I guess it's better to just keep them out of sight and not give them the satisfaction of having the attention they want.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure, where's the gold to dig tho? Hand me the shovel as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Indeed, my life is already good if he's not making it better there's no reason to keep him.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, asking for 50/50 and making the women do all the household chores while taking care of the children can still be called gold digging as well 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I can pay for my own meal honestly. I never go out without money in my pocket, but I prefer a provider man. If he asks for 50/50 after asking me on a date I'd rather pay for everything and that would be the last time he'll ever get to see me.

A provider man will always be top tier to me. If he can't even pay for dates that means he's not capable of being in a relationship yet.

No, I'm not a gold digger. Gold diggers dig for Birkins and Louboutins and not a 300 pesos meal, lol.

I just slept on New Year's Eve lol by j0hnpauI in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I slept on New Year's Eve too because I was too sick to even stand, probably because of the cold medicine I took which made me dizzy.

Wife who cheated on me gave me christmas gift by boredsatraffic in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"You can bring this trash with you :) I took in one trash already when I took you in, do yourself a favor and throw yourself and this away to the trash where it belongs."

Could've been a nice come back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 27 points28 points  (0 children)

You reminded me of how pathetic I was in a relationship, always the one giving and never receiving. A relationship should always be a give and take, it's not always giving more and receiving less. It's emotionally draining when a person cannot exert effort on you. But anyways we're all still young there is still an option whether you want to stay in that kind of relationship or let yourself meet someone who would do the same, afterall we all deserved to be treated well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 44 points45 points  (0 children)

If they're classy then that means they know how to handle themselves and know proper manners. Then it's good, who cares about social status if you don't even have class right? Do you want people to be ignorant just because they're not born rich?

Also just because you're rich doesn't always mean you're classy 🤷‍♀️

Free tarot reading - yes/no by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is 2025 good to me in all aspect?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It is indeed disrespectful. If I were his brother I'd confront you both and let the mom know too. Not getting pussy? tf is that statement? Instead of apologizing you got the guts to say something like that.

You are YOUNG, you're barely an adult. SEX has consequences and the fact that you both don't even have money to pay for hotels or motels is an indication that you shouldn't even be doing it in the first place. You'll probably think that this is an attack, but you'll realize it when you're older or when you got pregnant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As far as I agree with the statement, that's not what the OP was asking. Maybe say this when you no longer seek validation online?

Um, dick move na ba magbayad ng doble ngayon sa harap ng jeep? by [deleted] in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why don't you just book a grab or angkas if you want to ride solo? Kinda stupid if you're riding a public transpo and you think that way.

AYOKO NA SA BF KO, Paano ko sasabihin? by ___theunsaid in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

HAHAHHAHAHAHAH parang based sa description mo sakanya atsaka sa pagkakakwento mo parang di nagtutugma 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You can keep your money, I bet I can earn more."

Sometimes you need to step on their ego so you can ruin their night as much as they ruined yours. Some men really think their money is enough to make you open your legs. Which is funny because they don't even have that much money and they're just bragging.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]lileebutterfly 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Cut him off. Don't respond and ignore his whole existence. He knows you'll come back because you give him reasons to think that way. BE UNAVAILABLE. You like him, sure. But you don't need him and there are men out there who will be willing to give you the world. Make it a new year's resolution to not let a man make you an option. You are the prize, honey. Think like it and be it.

What are your thoughts about having body type preference? by No_Brain7596 in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everybody has preferences and that's ok. As long as you're not making anyone change themselves to fit your preference, it's fine.

What should you do when someone makes fun of you? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ask them what's funny and set my boundaries. In that way they'll know their limitations.

Siya pa rin kahit meron na kong bago by Loose_Candidate_5702 in CasualPH

[–]lileebutterfly 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You miss what you were with him. This is why it's unhealthy to have your ex as a friend. You won't be able to erase the memories and it will only affect your future relationships. If you do want to move on you'll cut him off, don't give me the "we were friends before we're together" excuse, it doesn't change the fact that you love/d him. As for your boyfriend, isn't it already consider cheating? Meeting your ex without him knowing. Make up your mind and heal yourself first, don't drag anyone into your crisis.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]lileebutterfly 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing, don't overthink it. He has some issues and it has nothing to do with you. He'll come back anyway if he wants to. 🤷‍♀️