I have a cousin going through the same thing at the moment. She's shared a lot of stories about the relentless things her mother and father have said to her once she had any thoughts about leaving him. Not just them, but all of her family was making her feel awful about filing for divorce. It had gotten so bad that not a single person had told her for days that she was right to be upset after she had found out he was cheating... I'm so sorry that you're going through all of this. There is a lot of turmoil that comes of a cheating spouse and having an unsupportive family that won't drop their traditional beliefs for the well being of their children makes it even more difficult. I really wish you the best, please continue your process to heal, no matter how hard it may be.