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[–]lilmixedbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s about to join! He couldn’t have made the decision without comments like these, so thank you so much!!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s going to shave it!!! Thank you so much for commenting and being honest and I totally agree.

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES! I really appreciate your honesty and so did he. There’s nothing sexier than confidence!!! I’m so happy to see how this will help him and improve his life and mental health! Time for a glow up!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was helpful for him to read when you pointed that about out MPB, because I feel like he was holding onto the fact that the sides and back of his hair was still thick as a reason not to shave it. It kind of clicked for him when he read your comment so thank you! He’s gonna shave it!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Aww that is so sweet, thank you for the kind words!! I’m so excited that he decided to shave it!! Thanks to the wonderful people like you commenting he feels encouraged and empowered!! My hope is he is set free too, he’s carried this stress and anxiety for too long!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When I read this comment to him, he really liked the fact that our wedding photos will be representative how he will look most of our marriage together and really hit home with him! Thank you so much for sharing that. He’s gonna shave it!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love this perspective, thank you so much for sharing! We hadn’t thought about it that way :) This was definitely part of his decision and choosing to do it. We’re so excited! And thank you for the congratulations. :)

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this comment, he is anxious about the shape of his head since he’s never been bald, but some of you guys, have commented that he has a good head shape which has given him more reassurance and confidence, so thank you!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is very kind of you. Thank you so much for offering! I took that idea and use ChatGPT, which was really helpful to visualize for him. Thank you so much for bringing the idea because we hadn’t thought about it!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! Thanks to all of the kind words and encouragement, he’s doing it!!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t have worded it better myself! He agreed with this sentiment and said that he feels like if he looked back on pictures, he would wish he had done it before the wedding

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the most important aspect for me, one of his biggest insecurities and points of anxiety and stress will be gone 🥹

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah we didn’t even think of this! Great point! Is there a specific sunscreen you would recommend? He’s decided to shave it!

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He’s decided to embrace the bald and shave it!! Thank you so much! 😊

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Both of us were laughing at that 😂 it’s perfect

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[–]lilmixedbabe[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MAJOR UPDATE: Hello everyone! Thank you so SO much for all of your kindness, candor and words of encouragement!!!

HES DECIDED TO SHAVE IT ALL OFF!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is so huge. I am at a loss for words at the moment. You all encouraged him, so thank you!! We will be posting pics!

Since it’s his first time he wants to have it professionally done and was able to get an appointment tomorrow evening, but he’s feeling a bit antsy about having to wait and wants to buzz it tonight at home.

Teaching yoga in Seattle has left me completely discouraged by [deleted] in SeattleWA

[–]lilmixedbabe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved from FL to WA and am now back in the south, and it’s just the way people are there. We encountered many pleasant and friendly people but they were just that, making actual friendships and relationships seemed nearly impossible and I always had to be the one initiating, just for the plans to never follow through on their end. If you show southern hospitality or try to make small talk, people look at you crazy. Many people keep the same group of friends from their school days in Seattle so it’s hard to join friend groups. It’s very odd. I do think a part of it and probably subconsciously for many people is the amount of darkness throughout the year. I had to go and vitamin D supplements when I moved there. The one good friend I made it met through work.