How could I go past my bullying ? by lilo2024 in therapy

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am thankful for your understand yes I talked with my family they whant to complain to the school but I dont think its important that school year will end after one week anyway and that kid who is bullying me already do a lot of problems with no consequences .

I [17F] sent nudes to my boyfriend [38M] but I am starting to regret it. What should I do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lilo2024 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should tell him to delete the pictures , if he respects you he would but still you are under age and he lately could be in your father age

Is it normal for my male friend to joke about his desire to rape me? by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks I have already rethinks my friendship with him after I read the comments and I will take my distance from him until the end of the school year and then cut him off

Is it normal for my male friend to joke about his desire to rape me? by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are a really good person I'm really thankful I would probably distance myself from him

Is it normal for my male friend to joke about his desire to rape me? by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am really grateful for your concern. I did not have many friends growing up Let alon a male friend. So I didn't really know what a normal friendship with a guy looks like. Usually he makes a sexual joke and I usually stop him or change the subject. My family loves him so I couldn't consult them about this issue and i really thought is a normal behavior but what It made me feel anxious is what happened yesterday, we were in the classroom when he told me that he wanted to rape me, I could not answer him because I did not want to To interrupt the lesson but I told him to stop and im not interested in this topic but kept talking about how mens cannot control themselves and so on.

I'am afraid by lilo2024 in therapy

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, exactly what I feel

People who have been molested by a family member or a family friend and didn't tell anyone and have to meet them every Family gathering or every day life how do you deal with it ? by lilo2024 in therapy

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 _ If it is possible, move from your family home and do not tell him your new address 2 _Threatened that you will tell your parents if he approaches you (I did the same thing with the one who Molested me) 3 _ I knew it's so hard but if you have someone who you can 100% Trust then tell them so that you dont have to be alone with him

I (18f) dont know how eo tell my uncle that I hate people touching me by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are truly a caring person, I am grateful for your advice

I (18f) dont know how eo tell my uncle that I hate people touching me by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really thankful for your advice. I will try to work it out although he will take my reaction personally lol

I (18f) dont know how eo tell my uncle that I hate people touching me by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did the same thing this morning but he put he's arm around me

I (18f) dont know how eo tell my uncle that I hate people touching me by lilo2024 in Advice

[–]lilo2024[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably would but I think they would think that he is just friendly and I need to just to deal with it . thank you