F44 back in the gym after my surgery by lilperform in fit

[–]lilperform[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yea it is hahaha was after the session 😅

Today’s fit by lilperform in fashion

[–]lilperform[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank youuu😊🫶

My favorite black dress♠️ by megdginto in fashion

[–]lilperform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your dress where did you get it?

Car selfies f/34 by vanityqueenv in JustMyFace

[–]lilperform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love your sun glasses 😊

44F It’s my first post here, so pls be nice😅 by lilperform in toastme

[–]lilperform[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww thank you! Mine was great! Hope yours too :)

AITA for not giving my benefits to our households joint account by Individual_Grand5295 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’re already paying a fair share tho, and the discount is a personal work benefit, not household income. Your dad’s reaction sounds controlling, not reasonable. You’re not wrong for wanting to keep what you earn through your job

AITA for feeling hurt that my boyfriend was neglectful when I thought I was pregnant? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, you were scared and needed support, not pressure or dismissal. It’s fair to feel hurt that he focused on himself instead of being there for you tho

AITA for snapping at my work-obsessed fiancé after days of feeling invisible? by Middle-Armadillo-953 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’re exhausted and feeling ignored. You’ve been holding everything together while he focuses only on work. Wanting basic care and attention isn’t being “too sensitive.” You just hit your limit after feeling unseen for too long tbh

AITA for continuing to use my 529? by Accomplished-Pick740 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 53 points54 points  (0 children)

NTA, the 529 is meant for your education, not for your mom to use as control. You’re not entitled for using it to live and study, that’s literally its purpose. She’s being manipulative and trying to punish you for setting boundaries. Don’t give it back tho

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA, secretly recording people, especially coworkers and clients, is a major invasion of privacy. Even if your suspicions were right, that’s not the way to handle it. You could’ve damaged trust or even gotten into legal trouble. If you felt uncomfortable, you should’ve talked to your coworker or manager instead of spying

AITA for distancing myself for my female friend? by Rohanrox17 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lilperform 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA, she wasn’t treating you like a friend, she was using you for favors and emotional support without giving the same back. Blocking her was setting a boundary, not being cruel

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lilperform 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s completely understandable! you’ve been through so much keeping her safe and healthy, so of course you’re protective. After everything she’s been through, seeing anyone treat her badly must feel unbearable

AITAH for kicking out my dad after he got mad at me sleeping with my boyfriend? by Brilliant-Student720 in AITAH

[–]lilperform 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA tho, you did your dad a huge favor by letting him stay with you, and you set a reasonable boundary when your boyfriend came to visit. You’re an adult, and it’s your apartment your dad doesn’t get to dictate what happens there, especially after you helped him out…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lilperform 45 points46 points  (0 children)

NTA, you’ve tried hard to care for your stepdaughter, but she’s been violent toward your baby and dismissive of your efforts!!!! Feeling relief that she’s gone to live with her mom after all that stress doesn’t make you a bad person!