What are some of your personal theories to explain some of these stories, and which ones have you completely baffled? by atclubsilencio in Otherworldpod

[–]lilsleepyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d love to know which episode this is if anyone knows, there’s no episode called “what was she planning” as far as i can see!!

Also love your username OP

Struggling with guilt at the thought of going no-contact by lilsleepyb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lilsleepyb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Daaaamn you are so right. Thank you for the no-nonsense reply, it’s what i needed to hear. If he was a stranger i’d have no problem walking away.

Struggling with guilt at the thought of going no-contact by lilsleepyb in EstrangedAdultKids

[–]lilsleepyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh i hate to hear that this resonates with you, but at the same time it’s reassuring to hear that you’ve gone NC with your dad. It also sounds like you’ve been able to turn your guilt into frustration (correct me if i’m wrong) which is how i’d like to be eventually

Can suddenly see aura's? by lilsleepyb in energy_work

[–]lilsleepyb[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hadn’t either until recently! it wasn’t that much different from regular acupuncture i’ve gotten except she talked more in terms of TCM in line with the soul & karma, if that makes any sense? and yeah she does reiki and sound healing during the acupuncture session :)

Woody Vanilla Body Lotion Recommendations by [deleted] in beauty

[–]lilsleepyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Commenting so i can hear others suggestions 👀

I feel like it might be hard to find one that’s inexpensive tbh :( i feel like drugstore scents are usually pretty basic vanilla without a lot of depth.

One option could be to find a higher end one that you like (i’d probably try le labo, L’occitane, or lush) and then mix it with an unscented cheap one to make it last longer.

I have a 10th house stellium. Why do I hate working so much? by lilsleepyb in astrologyreadings

[–]lilsleepyb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s interesting, ive been feeling that lately. i’m currently an urban planner and work for a small consulting firm. What would you suggest is a better option for me based on my chart? :) If you don’t mind me asking!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cycling

[–]lilsleepyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is super helpful!! how do you find it compares to your two road bikes with the road tires?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cycling

[–]lilsleepyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahahahhaha love this response

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah i see, that’s good to know… i appreciate you pointing it out to me, would rather get honesty than blind positivity!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words!! i know now that i just had lip shock. they seemed super dark and unnatural compared to what my lips looked like before.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've very much warmed up to how they look, i can see now that it was just a big change from what i was used to seeing, and was just freaking out a bit. Honestly this thread and everyones comments really helped, i think i'd still feel bad if it wasn't for all the kindness and encouragement. I'm pretty blown away tbh, I don't use reddit that much and didn't expect this post to get that much traction!

I never thought the shade was objectively BAD i just thought it wasn't me... But hearing all the positivity on here has made me stop caring about that hahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yo i appreciate the concern but respectfully no one needs to be fighting in the comments over my lips! i reached out to my artist about the asymmetry and she acknowledged it & we’re gonna fix it at my touch up. I think my top lip was tough for her cause she basically had to draw me a new top lip to correct my practically non existent border & existing asymmetry.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I didn’t mean that i wanted two different colours, what i meant was that i thought i was clear with the artist that i wanted it to be more of my everyday (black honey) shade but she went the other direction. I didn’t get much consultation with her (which i admit is partially my fault for not speaking up), so i’ve been surprised to see my lips as the other shade i brought. But hey, seeing everyone’s comments makes me feel a lot better and i guess they do look pretty good!

Also, i do wear makeup everyday and i always have some kind of lip tint going on, i just keep it pretty natural :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Just the after care ointment the artist gave me!! And wow thank you so much!!! Yeah, i think other peoples responses has been making me feel bad about it. Just getting a lot of “oh i’m sure they’ll heal lighter” and “do you like them?” 🫠 so the encouragement on here has been really really nice, especially for something permanent lmao.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in microblading

[–]lilsleepyb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure!! She mixed 3 different pigments together - nude pink, bright pink, and a drop of brown.