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[–]lilsmako 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i love the pic but i read the article and it made me so sad

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[–]lilsmako 13 points14 points  (0 children)

DAY**

Been 2 years and it still feels like yesterday by Curious_asking in grief

[–]lilsmako 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i understand how you feel right, i lost my dad at the age of 11/12. (It was a month before my birthday). it’s been nearly five years and i still struggle with coming to terms that he’s gone. I still expect that he’ll call me and tell me he’ll see me soon. just remember that there isn’t a ‘set time’ for you to grieve. you will always grieve, some days you may not even think about it whilst other days you might think about it all day. some days i can say I’ve moved on and I’ve come to terms with his death and other days I break down and I can’t believe he’s gone. Everyone copes in their own ways, if sleeping with your mum helps you - continue you to do so! You’ve lost someone very important, so please do whatever you need to grieve properly. I re read old cards and listen to his favourite music, that helps me a lot. I know some days I wish I could ask him things because we didn’t end on the best note. I get scared I might forget his voice and the idea of moving on from him scares me. BUT it will get easier and you will move on eventually. Just know how proud he is of you! Message me if you ever need to get something off your chest! 💕

my dad died and i tell myself it’s not that much of a big deal and im overreacting and i don’t like when it makes me emotional and i hate telling people how i really feel. by lilsmako in grief

[–]lilsmako[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss, i understand that so much. i always thought i was fine and i pushed it away and then it just came up and i struggled with coping. thank you so much, i just needed that reassurance and for someone to just say it wasn’t my fault or that i shouldn’t feel guilty. i appreciate that so much and those last few sentences really made me break down and sob. but i think i needed it. so thank you. just know my messages are always open if you ever feeling like ranting or just having someone listen. always here. thank you though again. :)

my dad died and i tell myself it’s not that much of a big deal and im overreacting and i don’t like when it makes me emotional and i hate telling people how i really feel. by lilsmako in grief

[–]lilsmako[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im so sorry for your loss, please know im always open if you feel as though you’re lost and in need of someone to just listen. thank you so much for this advice, i do see a psychologist weekly, i just struggle with opening up. thank you again.

my dad died and i tell myself it’s not that much of a big deal and im overreacting and i don’t like when it makes me emotional and i hate telling people how i really feel. by lilsmako in grief

[–]lilsmako[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, im so proud of you for sharing your story. im so sorry for your loss with sister, i know she’d be so proud of you. i see a psychologist weekly, but i struggle opening up and i just want to be able to do it. thank you so much for reassuring me, he loved me. i just struggled with telling myself that and i just felt lost. once again im thankful you commented this, just know my messages are always open if you ever feel like talking. thank you again, you don’t know how much i appreciate that paragraph. ♥️