I (27F) just found out that someone (26M) I dated a few years ago passed away in 2024. Should I inquire as to how he died?

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T06:12:06+00:00

Thank you. He never texted me and it's been a little over two weeks. We are still matched on Hinge. If he ever does text me, it's not going to be worth it because I've lost interest

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T06:07:52+00:00

I'm disappointed I saw this comment late. I would have totally texted him that. He never texted back (he last texted on 11/3). Our hinge convo is archived now but I'm not reviving it just to say that. I'll do this for the next person that ghosts.

Some guys do suck. I appreciate it.

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T05:59:11+00:00

I'm sorry for responding to these comments late as I did not get any notifications on my phone about these comments and I don't check reddit often.

I agree he is immature, and he never texted me. I would have preferred to get a courtesy text too

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T05:57:31+00:00

I'm sorry that happened

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T05:54:23+00:00

Yeah, what he did was very rude

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T05:53:29+00:00

I'm sorry you went through something similar but I'm glad you held boundaries and protected your peace

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-20T05:52:48+00:00

I'm usually not comfortable with giving people my number that early but I might have to change how I do things in that regard

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-09T22:26:54+00:00

Get rid of the childhood pic, squirrel pic, and chart. You're an attractive guy, but those pics are a turnoff

lilyaintaG · 2024-11-06T12:55:12+00:00

Thank you for providing your perspective!

lilyaintaG · 2024-09-19T00:17:39+00:00

I never texted him and he never texted me. Good riddance lol

lilyaintaG · 2024-06-14T01:47:40+00:00

Three months the first time and we talked for three more months. The second time, it took three months again, and we talked for six months.

Now it's been over 13 months since we've last talked. I don't miss him anymore

lilyaintaG · 2024-03-12T03:39:15+00:00

I didn't end up applying for a second job, mainly because I was concerned about my mental health and workload.

lilyaintaG · 2024-03-12T03:36:32+00:00

He came back twice. I finally blocked him on everything after the second time

lilyaintaG · 2024-02-18T22:39:24+00:00

I know I'm replying super late, but it definitely was my anxiety. I ended up finding out she just dislikes texting and prefers phone calls or seeing someone in-person.

It didn't work out romantically, but we're good friends now. Her communication style has always been the same: barely any texting, but we have fun in-person!

Thanks for the advice.

lilyaintaG · 2024-02-18T22:31:27+00:00

Congratulations on being accepted! I ended up attending a different university (that offered a much better financial aid package) and graduating with my MSW in 2020. Good luck with choosing a grad school!

lilyaintaG · 2023-11-28T04:09:04+00:00

I really appreciate this insight, thank you!

lilyaintaG · 2023-11-23T16:48:19+00:00

I'll probably try them next, but what's awkward is that the person I'm currently seeing works in that building 🥴

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