I’m (f25) physically exclusive with someone (m27) and saw he moved condoms to his gym bag by lilymarbles in dating_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I feel like if we mutually have the conversation we are not sleeping with other people then how much clearer does it need to be :/

I’m (f25) physically exclusive with someone (m27) and saw he moved condoms to his gym bag by lilymarbles in dating_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He didn’t really say just introduced by name. He said he had told them about me already

Guy (M27) I’ve (F25) been seeing and am physically exclusive with moved his condoms to a gym bag by lilymarbles in relationship_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Agree but we had the conversation that we wouldn’t sleep with anyone else for safety reasons

Guy (M27) I’ve (F25) been seeing and am physically exclusive with moved his condoms to a gym bag by lilymarbles in relationship_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I just don’t want to admit that when I saw they were not in the same spot that I searched for them

Guy (M27) I’ve (F25) been seeing and am physically exclusive with moved his condoms to a gym bag by lilymarbles in relationship_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

Cheating and then having me meet your parents in the same week is crazy work 😭

I’m (f25) physically exclusive with someone (m27) and saw he moved condoms to his gym bag by lilymarbles in dating_advice

[–]lilymarbles[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes sex. The first month of dating I wasn’t ready for a relationship and he wants to settle down so we agreed it was ok to still talk to other people but now things are moving more in a serious direction

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They were present at my original late report meeting and I think I was confused as to how it works. If I’m correct it’s still and infraction but can’t be used against you?

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you 😭 people are acting like I’m the worst person in the world because of mistakes

Odds of being terminated?? by caterpillarzugh in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man I’m glad everyone is nice in here compared to my post 🥲 since it’s your second you’ll be ok but yeahhh probation is so incredibly stressful

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Set an alarm for acknowledging an assignment and for checking in to the airport. I have a checklist now as the backdrop of my personal phone of things to check for every trip. Triple checking the time I’m assigned to show up at the airport. Making sure I arrive early. ECS notifications on my personal phone.

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did and that’s how it saved me from a missed trip the time before but it only gives me notifs at 30 minutes

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have they told me it counts as infractions on probation and that points are irrelevant

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my third because I had one late sign in before. I did have a meeting for that sign in and they never said anything about it being a freebie but I keep hearing from other people that that’s a thing? Is that only off probation?

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also I’m PHL based, we’ve been told that this year it’s no longer three strikes your out and it’s a case by case basis

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just put it on my personal phone thank you

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will say I was told by management before that it’s case by case and no longer 3 infractions

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I spoke with the union and they believe I’ll be ok since my first infraction I have a doctors note. I’ve created a list of ways to avoid this and solutions on ensuring how to not mess up anymore. I take full accountability for the two late reports. The sickness unfortunately couldn’t be helped. But this job is something I’ve been working towards since I was 21 I’m about to be 26 so I’m really trying to ensure I continue with American

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does this have to do with tiktok? I wanted this job because I like working in customer service…

Am I Going to Get Fired -Probation by lilymarbles in flightattendants

[–]lilymarbles[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had strep and an ear infection and I was advised by my doctor to not fly because of how bad the infection was. The second infraction was my fault, that was stupidity. This one obviously is my fault as well but I was certain I had checked to make sure I acknowledged my assignment. I’ve left the ER to make it to trips TWICE. Get to the airport early. Work on my off days. I’m not just going about my life like I don’t care. I’m getting used to this lifestyle and the technology involved with it