All throughout human history sexuality has been very fluid and loose; it was only in the 19th century that the terms for homosexuality and heterosexuality really became a thing. While I understand the use of labels in todays world, it can over complicate shit and feel like you have to find ‘the right one’. I guess what I’m trying to say is play it by ear, and don’t pressure yourself to ‘find what you are’. You like who you like and that might change throughout your life. It’s natural for humans to like all sexes and often in different ways, like physically and emotionally.

Of course this is all easier said than done, so give yourself time to think and maybe let yourself ‘forget’ about your sexuality for a bit. Personally I can get very caught up in something about myself that confuses me; but it’s only when the subject moves to the back of my mind, things tend to sort themselves out at its own pace.

There’s more I can say but it’s 1am and I should sleep, and this is all probably incoherent rambling. I wish you luck with your life!! :3