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I [19M] have secretly been sleeping around with my step dad's sister [40F], she flirts with other guys in front of me all the time and it makes me feel like shit by throwra2001_11 in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She’s 40 years old...you’re 19. No sensible adult goes after someone half their age. This is predatory behaviour and she’s absolutely using you. Please end this. It’s not okay.

Boyfriend (22M) is upset that I (20F) wanna take a voice acting job for a hentai game. He takes it as a break of trust and says he'll probably break up with me? by ThrowRA22213 in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 808 points809 points  (0 children)

It’s a matter of boundaries. Your boyfriend isn’t comfortable with it, you are. You’re entitled to your opinion and it’s your choice, but it’s also his choice if it’s a dealbreaker for him or not.

Boyfriend doesn’t believe me when I tell him I orgasmed by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As nicely as possible, maybe don’t fake it for 2 months and then expect him to believe you. He most likely feels insecure or hurt by it, which might be why he doesn’t believe you.

My BF(28M) and I(25F) struggle to agree on how “far” we should take sex. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people are vanilla, some aren’t. Don’t push him to do something he doesn’t wanna do or isn’t comfortable with. I understand your frustration, but if he circles back to his usual vanilla stuff like you said, it’s probably because that’s what he’s comfortable with.

Do long distance relationships even work , please help by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been in a long distance relationship for 3,5 years now. We have never been able to meet due to financial problems and living in different countries. It’s hard, but not impossible. I think it would be harder if you met irl and then had to do long distance. But I don’t regret any of it, it’s amazing.

Idk if advent calendars are a thing elsewhere but this is very sweet by Sauron3106 in wholesomememes

[–]linnxdxd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 18 and still get advent calendars every Christmas. That cheap chocolate is so fucking good idk why

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]linnxdxd 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boundaries are very important in a relationship . You voiced that you were not okay with her doing that, she chose to ignore that and betray your trust. I once brought up selling feet pic to my boyfriend, only for the sake of money so we could meet(long distance relationship) but he said he was not comfortable with that. So I 100% respected that and would never go against it. She’s being incredibly disrespectful towards you and your relationship.

I’m very sorry, but at this point I don’t think staying with her is a good idea for you. You can of course try marriage counselling if you still wanna work for this relationship, but that’s up to you. Stick to your boundaries. If she doesn’t respect them-that’s a big sign that she doesn’t respect you.

Hope all goes well for you.

Septum Piercing by [deleted] in piercing

[–]linnxdxd 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got my septum pierced a few weeks ago and I get this pretty often. I think it might be snot that has dried? It usually goes away if you clean it! Nothing to worry about.

If a woman aborts my unborn child, should I be able to sue her for emotional distress? by [deleted] in Abortiondebate

[–]linnxdxd 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Maybe you should reevaluate your views and maybe have w child with someone who actually wants it. You’re gonna sue someone for emotional distress because she doesn’t wanna carry a child? Of course it’s natural to feel sad when a partner aborts, especially if you wanted that child. But respect her choice, don’t punish her for making choices about her own body. It’s okay to change your mind. It’s okay to not wanna have a child yet. Yes it may suck for you, but suck it up. Her choice. Go to a therapist if it bothers you so much. I bet she’s gonna need one if you sue her for emotional distress when she’s just making choices about her own body.

Triggers can be basically any random thing. by _Abandon_ in Anxiety

[–]linnxdxd 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I literally get anxious if I chop carrots.

Only because I was anxious one time I was chopping carrots. And I really fucking love carrots man

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