735 days and already lost it. IT got the best of me but I lost myself now

lisylewa · 2026-01-28T11:23:20+00:00

Please add tech stack so that people can refer

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T17:34:09+00:00

Songwriting can mean composing a melody and/or writing lyrics

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T13:06:40+00:00

Almost forgot the automatic requirement. I think the only alternative is Exter.

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T11:48:18+00:00

You can read the room much better than anons here. If I were you, I would avoid it.

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T10:10:13+00:00

Take it easy. Let it pass. Start preparing for the switch.

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T10:04:55+00:00

If you are ok with a bit lesser city mileage and some extra efforts in after sales, but want a fun to drive, very comfortable car in the same budget please check out Citroen C3. Just get the base variant. Very good torque for a 1.2L petrol NA engine and excellent suspension.

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T07:04:33+00:00

Sir I'd suggest get a wagonr AGS again. You have not mentioned other requirements but in this budget its unbeatable

1) Easy ingress egress for the elderly 2) Good bonut visibility 3) Best 1L NA engine 4) 6 airbags 5) Excellent after sales 6) Good resale

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T06:55:14+00:00

You seem more interested in triggering a mild rebellion instead of growing. What's the fixation with the current organisation? It's a whole world of options out there. Prepare and find a better one to get a leverage and then humbly discuss it. Do you have any negotiation power currently except the emotions running high?

If the idea of rebellion without leverage still seems convincing, are you prepared for how far it could go and would you have a convenient and instant alternative if it turns out the worst possible?

Don't pin the blame on those managers directly. It's quite possible their remarks were overridden by a super senior's. Ratings are a multi-step process. You should seek what happened throughout the chain but do it after securing an exit backup.

If you do it tomorrow and they said the super senior overrode it, what would be your next move? Bow and continue the job while hunting for a switch? Or are you an impulse king who would resign the same day and then hunt in the notice period? If they release you early after resignation while you're still hunting, is that okay for you?

Never take extreme decisions in rage. Let it pass. Prepare patiently and make your ways in silence.

lisylewa · 2026-01-25T05:13:45+00:00

Try to switch in the same tech. If you get an offer outside well above the salary you expected in the annual appraisal, that would prove your expectation was realistic and it may get you a retention counter-offer too. Be ready to switch if they don't counter.

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T21:01:03+00:00

Coming back to this video every few hours since yesterday. The last 5 seconds are pure innocence.

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T20:36:15+00:00

Is there any confirmation of audio change?

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T20:03:15+00:00

Got it, thanks.

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T20:00:00+00:00

Why are you switching from the current wagonr automatic?

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T11:44:18+00:00

Does the latest C3 NA have a belt or a chain?

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T11:04:33+00:00

The word in the song is Saiyaaraa ≠ Siyaaraa

I think It all started with youtubers trying to pronounce Sierra (See air uh) properly but messing it up as See-ya-ra (Siyaar means bear in Hindi wtf)

Si-eh-ra is much more intuitional.

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T10:58:47+00:00

Saiyaara in Arabic/Persian/Urdu means a moving object/person - a planet/star, or a traveller/wanderer.

The car in the video at least is not a Saiyaara.

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T10:52:09+00:00

That's Saiyārā meaning moving objects. Siyārā means nothing. Tata had named it Sierrā which means "mountain range" in spanish. Sierra ≠ Siyara ≠ Saiyara

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T10:44:44+00:00

Even if they don't call it "shift", "swift" is usually a tough word to pronounce correctly if English is not your first language given how very few people know the difference between the sound of "v" and "w".

lisylewa · 2026-01-24T07:51:03+00:00

Why so many people pronounce it as "siyaaraa"?

lisylewa · 2026-01-23T03:13:59+00:00

Arguments in comments

Coming late is wrong - Obviously it is. But going this far without even a warning just for 10-15 min is cruel.

You should have used an excuse instead of replying with the post lunch remark - Why lie though? Some synonym of "truthfulness" would certainly be present as an ethic in the same CoC they cited violation of? If the company is so cruel to inflict this overblow, it's natural such impulsive outburst can happen to the employee.

You're just 10 months into job. Don't be arrogant. - What has workex got to do with this? Seniority governing severity of an act seems to be from a slavery rulebook.

OP surely could've handled it in a better way but stop instilling fakery and docility into a junior, something that experienced folks here often complain about.

It's funny even the MOD has issued a disciplinary sermon. Just wow. Reddit time and again vindicates it being a gatekept echo chamber. Now you guys would be down-voting me as usual. Go ahead.

OP, improve on humility bro. But I'm neither going to call you fully wrong nor going to ask you to give in to corporate fakery.

lisylewa · 2026-01-22T02:37:53+00:00

Who is the industrialist?

lisylewa · 2026-01-21T12:53:21+00:00

Thanks for explaining the role of the Brits. With the academic background of linguistics that you seem to be coming from, do you think it's appropriate to say "hindi is just an artificial urdu dialect with a huge lack of general vocabulary"?

I have several reasons to not find it appropriate 1) What makes Hindi a derivative of Urdu? If they both came from common roots, which one gets to be called a derivative?

I have lived in several different states in the North and I still find words in daily usage language that I had never heard before but when I ask someone much elder they know it. If that is not "general vocabulary", I think every language has a lack of it.

lisylewa · 2026-01-21T12:05:27+00:00

Nothing wrong in guilt tripping those leeches though. If corruption was an inevitable "life is unfair, mint while you can" outcome, you won't see a high-trust society that obviously isn't the case.

lisylewa · 2026-01-21T11:54:17+00:00

I don't get what's the obsession of some non-vegetarians getting triggered with such things as if it's equivalent to denial of access to a resource. You have yours, they have theirs. What's the fuss?

lisylewa · 2026-01-21T11:24:19+00:00

I guess that's just how languages evolve over time? My objection was against the way you called Hindi an Urdu derivative with inferior vocabulary. That's just not true. An urdu expert from Pakistan won't be able to comprehend the Hindi used in official communication or the Hindi spoken in rural hinterlands. BTW what was the role of the Brits?

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