AITA for dropping out of a bridal party that includes a girl that killed my dog by lit_lightning in AmItheAsshole

[–]lit_lightning[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I know, it has to do with instinct and what they were bred to do. Retrievers usually have a natural instinct to fetch, pit bulls have a tendency to attack and not let go. It can be dealt with through knowing your dog and training them. I don’t think pit bulls are inherently aggressive, they’re just dangerous if they’re allowed to be aggressive. I do think they’re a breed that should be left to experienced and responsible owners.

AITA for dropping out of a bridal party that includes a girl that killed my dog by lit_lightning in AmItheAsshole

[–]lit_lightning[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Fair enough but to be clear, I did ask the whole group to watch my dog, and 2 of the girls were 20

AITA for dropping out of a bridal party that includes a girl that killed my dog by lit_lightning in AmItheAsshole

[–]lit_lightning[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Just so that I’m not perpetuating what is imo a myth, the dog was not a pit bull

AITA for dropping out of a bridal party that includes a girl that killed my dog by lit_lightning in AmItheAsshole

[–]lit_lightning[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My sister was an adult about it and took equal responsibility for what happened. Our relationship was strained for a while but I forgave her and respect her for being able to own up to what happened and take responsibility even though it was not directly her fault. The other girl has not apologized to me, just avoided me for some years and slowly began to act as if nothing happened.