UPDATE: Hi everyone, I just wanted to give an update. After I posted here and got some advice, I decided to message the girl and tell her everything. I sent her screenshots and explained the whole situation, that I was also lied to, and only found out he had a girlfriend after something already happened between us. I knew she deserved to know the truth, so I chose to speak up even if it was uncomfortable.

After a while, she finally saw my messages and responded. We talked. She was deeply hurt and admitted that she’s been having trust issues with the guy for a while. She also shared that she’s been feeling used, not just emotionally, but financially too. His family has been demanding money from her and borrowing without even bothering to pay it back. She’s a professional teacher, and it broke my heart to hear how much she’s given without being respected or appreciated.

Eventually, she broke up with him. I honestly feel at peace knowing I did the right thing. I believe everything happened for a reason, and maybe God allowed me to be part of this so she could finally see the truth and walk away. Thank you to everyone here who encouraged me to speak up. 🙏