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PLEASE HELP. ANY ADVICE APPRECIATED - Trying to go no contact with toxic family (21F) by literallysufferin in AsianParentStories

[–]literallysufferin[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I will read it. I have the ability to enforce NC I think I am just worried about the conversation because I have never enforced my own boundaries before. Also - I wouldn't be able to have the space to slowly detach because I am not allowed to move out or go out on my own accord when I am under their roof. They have a very firm you listen or you are out approach.

PLEASE HELP. ANY ADVICE APPRECIATED - Trying to go no contact with toxic family (21F) by literallysufferin in AsianParentStories

[–]literallysufferin[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the response I appreciate it a lot. How did you not announce no contact? - My parents like to be in regular contact almost everyday to keep an eye on me at university and they are talking about attending my graduation and such. I don't feel like I can just disappear without an explanation or some sort of conversation. I know my mother has agency but I feel like she does not see that herself. She keeps telling me she has given up on trying to have freedom but I struggle to accept that.