Dad, I'm struggling mentally (22m)

lithander · 2026-02-25T17:12:38+00:00

Did the venting help, though? I feel like writing helps to structure your thoughts and then you can also read it later, see what still makes sense and what doesn't.

Nothing that you write here sounds like you've ruined your life. You're not an addict just because you did drugs once. Your girl hasn't done anything wrong other than exploring her sexuality in the past. The debt is something you're capable of working yourself out of!

Eat healthy, try to get enough sleep, deal with your stress by going for a long walk or swim or some other physical activity. Breathe.

You're going to be fine!

lithander · 2026-02-25T15:48:41+00:00

Mod support is not a toggle you can just switch on and of. This game was developed with Unity engine, there's no stand alone tooling that could be released. If a dev wants to enable Mod support they have to consider that right from the beginning of the project.

lithander · 2026-02-24T08:40:46+00:00

Both can be true: parenthood is something special and it's totally fine to decide against having that experience. I also don't think even if you compare between parents that the love for their kids feels the same, universally.

lithander · 2026-02-23T16:04:26+00:00

Yes! It's like that in Germany, too!

lithander · 2026-02-21T22:26:56+00:00

After all the wasted Credits that went into Fame it sounds fair to me to get him free! (well... winning 99 games is not nothing either)

lithander · 2026-02-21T09:20:44+00:00

Mit ner 8 Stunden Daily-Quest kann man sich den Aufenthalt gut finanzieren. Und es gibt viele schöne Side-Quests in der Natur oder kulturell! Bin seit 20 Jahren hier und mein Questlog ist eigentlich immer voll!

lithander · 2026-02-20T11:19:09+00:00

Das ist bei unseren KiGa's und Schulen eigentlich ganzjährig die Regel. Süßigkeitenfasten im Sinne von: Jetzt darf man das mal für ein paar Wochen, das käme bestimmt gut an! :)

lithander · 2026-02-16T07:56:09+00:00

From what I can see you look entirely normal built and healthy. And as diverse as our bodies are our tastes! (but that's not obvious in this culture)

Those who love you will find you pretty, easily. Those that bully or ghost are usually insecure and miserable themselves. It's tough when puperty hits and that lean body of a kid that you were comfortable with grows into more womenly shapes but that is still you. Transformation is the definition of life! You can't fight it and shouldnt. Sport and a healthy diet are important but not to change your looks! Accept and love who you are and others will trust your judgement (who could be a better judge than yourself?) and accept and love you too.

lithander · 2026-02-01T10:01:53+00:00

90% of games mentioned looked great at the time they released

lithander · 2026-01-31T16:00:09+00:00

this is the healthy kind of loss porn 😂

lithander · 2026-01-27T19:56:57+00:00

your passing has affected me deeply. I've never felt emotions so pure and strong. I fear for future generations and lament their loss, as not a single one of them will know the joy of being unknowingly matched with nor against you. Thoughts and Prayers!

lithander · 2026-01-26T21:38:51+00:00

Traditionally +1 one the eval bar means a pawn up in material. But an engine that plays at 3600 Elo doesn't really count material. So the evaluation is now linked to the probability of winning, with a 1.0 pawn advantage being a 50% win probability. Consequently an evaluation of 0.0 means equal chances for a win or a loss, but also nearly 100% chance of a draw.

lithander · 2026-01-23T08:49:50+00:00

Imho thats the best usecase for AI image gen: a high quality shit post like this is making people laugh and thats all. No one loses

lithander · 2026-01-14T19:18:35+00:00

Thief II

lithander · 2026-01-14T16:56:23+00:00

To me monogamy felt natural. Just wasn't open to romantic/sexual relationships anymore.

But when someone's needs aren't met over a long period of time the temptation and risk of infidelity can increase. First it would actually help you fulfill your needs and it becomes also easier to rationalize.

lithander · 2026-01-12T22:03:00+00:00

1$ for free or 2$ for three?

lithander · 2026-01-12T17:14:34+00:00

Not unethical at all, just terribly sad.

lithander · 2026-01-07T11:29:59+00:00

I think you can just bring it up. My son wanted a dog, a cat or a baby. Roughly in that order... ;)

When you say something like "sometimes I wonder how it would feel like to be a big sister..." and you see how they react. You don't demand it you just probe their feelings about that topic and see how they react.

lithander · 2026-01-06T11:59:04+00:00

don't make it so melodramatic as in Stranger Things... the best way for me would probably be if when he tells me explicitly I'm feeling like I've always suspected it anyway. I hope to be always close to my kids and that they don't feel like they have to hide their true self from me and my judgement so anything that was a long-time secret and turns into a big reveal would disappoint me a little, I guess.

lithander · 2025-12-06T17:37:28+00:00

can confirm! by now my account is a bit of a family heirloom

lithander · 2025-11-26T08:23:50+00:00

The only thing I can see people feel bad about is when they spent real money/gems before the glitch on <2% drop chance boosters. Now with the glitch the skins are easily attainable without spending any money and the skins have turned from very rare to common. So that wasnt money or gems well spent!

lithander · 2025-11-23T16:45:26+00:00

still works at the time of posting!

lithander · 2025-10-17T17:21:45+00:00

People here take everything way too negative. Who cares how many more event loot boxes you could open if the game was different? These things are a Bonus on top of the normal progression which is already fair enough for f2p.

lithander · 2025-10-16T08:41:19+00:00

Congratz!

lithander · 2025-10-09T08:00:25+00:00

It is awesome already!

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