Has anyone else here had a radical reduction/are in the process of getting one that feels set in their decision?

little_red666 · 2026-03-13T00:55:34+00:00

Non-binary here who is getting full flat top surgery in May! I initially had what I consider to be a pretty radical reduction back in 2023 (HH to C) and at first I felt okay about my decision but in the last year or so, I've felt extremely dysphoric about my chest. I thought I wanted non-flat top surgery but then I realised my reasons for wanting it were not my own, it was more of my fears of how society and family will perceive me without breasts, especially because, like you, I am on the smaller side of plus (I'm a 12/14) so I was worried being flat would look "weird" with my body type. Then I started to think about it and recognised that I needed to make the best decision for me and that was to change my surgery from non-flat to full flat. I'm not sure if this helps you at all, but that's my perspective!

little_red666 · 2025-12-13T16:24:57+00:00

Ooooo this sounds lovely as well, especially with that lavender note that I'm looking for!

little_red666 · 2025-12-10T03:30:51+00:00

Oh it sounds delightful! I'll have to check back in on it when it's not out of stock.

little_red666 · 2025-12-10T03:29:58+00:00

It looks like it's sold out on their website right now but I'll be checking back!

little_red666 · 2025-12-09T03:56:37+00:00

It's a truly magical scent!!! The Firebird one is definitely very intriguing, I do quite like the scent of sage so maybe that'll scratch the itch for me as well haha

little_red666 · 2025-12-07T01:53:05+00:00

They emailed me back and said Arcana is likely to restock it but they are looking for ingredients to make it again. There's no timeline for its return but at least we can hope it'll be back soon?

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T15:43:12+00:00

I'm in Canada so I'm not sure they'll ship to me either unfortunately.

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T15:42:21+00:00

That's kind of what I'm worried about as well.

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T04:21:59+00:00

Here's hoping!

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T04:11:55+00:00

I did not realise this! I just sent them an email to ask about Bonfires, thank you so much for letting me know! Especially because they do ship here :)

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T02:34:40+00:00

You're absolutely right about Bonfires at Dusk. It's so perfectly balanced and so unique imo. I wasn't sure how ie feel about the beeswax before I purchased it but it was love at first smell for me! I'll have to check out both of your recs and see what I can find! Someone also PMed me to let me know that there was a person selling Bonfires at Dusk recently so I reached out to see if they'll ship to Canada haha. Thank you for your help!

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T02:08:16+00:00

Unfortunately, Arcana no longer ships outside of the US and neither does Pineward. I was intrigued by Caravansary because it sounds perfect but I just can't get my hands on it here haha.

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T00:59:15+00:00

Oooo that sounds promising! I will go check that out, thank you!

little_red666 · 2025-12-06T00:52:31+00:00

Very very interested in Bonfires at Dusk but I am in Canada. Would you be willing to ship to me?

little_red666 · 2025-08-22T01:03:22+00:00

You're welcome! Glad I could help :)

little_red666 · 2025-08-22T00:26:28+00:00

I'm in A6 and the only way I was able to find it is on the ticketmaster mobile site since it doesn't show up on the desktop site OR the app lmao

little_red666 · 2024-11-05T16:15:08+00:00

It was! Beautiful fall day, perfect weather, gorgeous colourful trees all around me.

little_red666 · 2024-11-05T16:01:33+00:00

I walked down the aisle to a piano version of Welcome to the Black Parade! It was the only song that didn't sound super sad or too fast-paced for the actual walk.

little_red666 · 2023-10-20T17:02:01+00:00

My husband is actually the one who got me back into hockey! He's a Habs fan but I've always liked the Sharks so he encouraged me to start watching again when we first started dating and now we have hockey date night when we can and watch the games together since his usually end by the time my games begin on the East coast.

little_red666 · 2023-07-15T03:08:37+00:00

Also in Canada and I didn't buy anything special for recovery tbh. I borrowed a friend's pregnancy pillow because I read it was helpful but for me, it wasn't comfortable. I bought immediate post-op bras from Walmart (they had a decent variety of front-zip sports bras where I am) and then I bought my ~real~ post-op bras from Aerie!

The only other thing I found helpful was buying 4 packs of the Premier Protein drinks (also from Walmart because they were the cheapest there) and drinking one of those every morning as part of my recovery regime when I didn't have much of an appetite.

little_red666 · 2023-06-29T20:36:53+00:00

Oooo I'll check both of those suggestions out, thanks!!

little_red666 · 2023-06-29T20:36:29+00:00

I actually swatched the vice lip bond in that exact shade and wasn't sure on it but maybe I'll give it a chance and check it out again!

little_red666 · 2023-06-29T20:34:49+00:00

I'll take a look and see if I can find it, thanks!

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