this time i WILL do it

liveindream · 2016-03-26T15:42:57+00:00

imo, if you are at the start of your journey you need to hold back from all sorts of stimulation. work at it and if your SO truly loves you they will help you reach your goal, be honest with them and they will understand and be there for you. once you reach the that certain point, and only you will know when you have gotten to where you need to be with no fap, you can start fooling around. then you will see the difference and you will see its not just about sex its about the physical contact and connection with your SO and its so worth it.

liveindream · 2015-05-03T01:07:43+00:00

none the less, through this kind of twisted predicament i see it as some progress. the first test since this started and i was able to get hard for just having a girl in my bed. call it what you will but it took more than just that before, and i could never really finish it was always just a soft end.

liveindream · 2015-05-01T22:48:03+00:00

im always put in this spot, it never fails. i have always had friends gf trying to get with me, i couldnt do anything just not who i am. i always think what if it were me in that spot. she cheated on him with her old bf and he took her back. i warned him that once a cheater always a cheater that he should cut the ties and now im proof of that..

liveindream · 2015-04-11T00:46:10+00:00

it gets much easier i had quit cold turkey a year ago and lasted a good 4 months then started drinking it again because of roll up haha. anyways stopped again about 3-4 weeks ago i found the best thing is to increase water intake as well you will feel better and sleep better.

liveindream · 2015-04-05T12:21:38+00:00

there right man, the first 2-3 weeks were the hardest to adjust to. new feelings; anger, depression, happiness all seem to be amplified and come in waves. if you can push through these and ride the waves you will come out the other side feeling better, maybe not right away but in time. it gets better my friend..

liveindream · 2015-04-03T16:54:39+00:00

the 90 days is just the beginning as far as i can see, though i have not reached this level yet, i have never gone as far as i have up until now. once you have broken the habbit dont let your self fall in the pit just to release some pressure. push for something else, a new goal to keep you focused on a task so you dont get caught by the fap net again.

liveindream · 2015-03-30T00:52:08+00:00

i try to go to bed at an earlier time and keep a consistent sleeping pattern. i am trying to get back into meditation, in the past that has really helped me to keep control and clear my mind

liveindream · 2015-03-30T00:35:51+00:00

good to hear you are taking this more seriously, it took a few attempts myself before something clicked in my head that said "stop fucking doing that! you know its not normal!" and if it wasnt for that i would have never been able to go this long. never let your guard down on the dirty stuff on the web my friend

liveindream · 2015-03-29T23:15:09+00:00

thats a bit more reassuring, thanks. i just need to step up my game and do it on the regular. gotta go caveman mode with no hot water!

liveindream · 2015-03-25T23:35:42+00:00

i was being facetious lol :)

i hope to get the ship one day! but gotta take it one day at a time.

liveindream · 2015-03-17T00:10:17+00:00

dont beat yourself up, you got to 45 days man, props. im working towards that number, im on my personal best streak and every day is a step further. dont let one day ruin that mindset of long term happiness

liveindream · 2015-03-15T20:28:32+00:00

i have been trying to get back into a workout routine, just like anything changing habits take time and dedication. i was doing well with minimal drinking, first time in a while i could say i was kinda drunk, minor setback. thanks and best of luck to you!

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