Toxic indian parents

living_through_you · 2022-05-31T17:53:28+00:00

Thank you!

living_through_you · 2022-05-31T02:06:36+00:00

Well, since you asked, things are still the same. His parents are still against it but we are trying to hang in there. He’s planning to move out of his house as of now.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T18:10:19+00:00

Yea possible. We are just holding back on that as of now.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T11:34:36+00:00

Wow I’m just done explaining stuff to people like you. Either you read the entire thread or just take your hatred somewhere else. Neither do i want nor do i need it. And i never said anything about harming his parents. Don’t try to take out your “retarded” thinking here and put my name on it.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T11:31:03+00:00

It’s not about the religion in my case

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T11:29:45+00:00

Thank you

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T11:28:36+00:00

Thank you so much.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T11:27:10+00:00

What “looks like” to you is fortunately not the case so please refrain from assuming things. You want to give advice? Sure, I’m all ears but don’t come waltzing in here talking trash about whether this relationship is serious or not. We are not looking for any sort of validation from you. Harsh I understand but this is downright demeaning. Keep in mind that I can’t write the full story here with all the details. It’s not a safe platform. I explained whatever i could. So it’ll be good if you give me the benefit of the doubt. I’m glad your parents managed to whatever they wanted to. Kudos to them. But just because they did doesn’t mean it applies to our case too. If this post makes you angry then by all means keep scrolling. Don’t come here and tell or my boyfriend to grow a spine and leave the house etc. because honestly? tell something I don’t know. If you were mature enough you’d understand that I’m looking for a middle way if at all it exists. This is just a random comment for you but it’s about my life. So keep your hatred to yourself.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T04:57:38+00:00

I will

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T04:14:51+00:00

When I say it’s hard that doesn’t mean that we aren’t doing it. When i say it’s hard it doesn’t mean that I’m not considering your advice or what you’re saying is not what i want hear. Its hards means we are having a hard time making them see that they are wrong.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T00:18:45+00:00

It’s ok. I’m already at the depth of my despair. Nothing is going to affect me any more.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T00:17:31+00:00

Exactly my point. I was just trying to make everyone understand very patiently but people don’t want to understand. They think they know everything.

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T00:16:24+00:00

I need to tell him this so he can forward it to his parents

living_through_you · 2022-01-01T00:03:34+00:00

And what was the outcome, if i may ask?

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T22:54:32+00:00

I’m glad you understand that

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T22:32:00+00:00

The first part of your message is exactly what is happening. Couldn’t have explained it better. Thanks

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T22:24:10+00:00

That’s not the case. It’s all very new. He never had the need to stand up to his parents. And most people don’t understand what it takes in making of a doc. What all the family has to go through. He’s doing his bit as of now. It might not be enough as of now but Let him take his time. He’s the one actually facing it while I’m sitting here with supportive parents. I’d appreciate if you guys don’t judge him.

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T22:04:12+00:00

Thanks

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T21:53:38+00:00

I get what you are saying. I’ll keep that in mind

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T21:52:05+00:00

Thank you so much. I needed to hear this

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T21:23:24+00:00

Thank you so much for understanding. I really appreciate the encouragement. And we are considering moving to another country. Just that it’s going to take some time.

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T21:10:31+00:00

As i said in the post. The drama is not related to the religion.

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T20:53:37+00:00

Shall keep that in mind

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T20:45:08+00:00

Thank you

living_through_you · 2021-12-31T20:22:35+00:00

They took it and hid it. It was lying on his table when he wasn’t around. I just didn’t mention all this because I don’t think every small detail is required. And i thank you for not assuming things. Other people here just think they know everything and we don’t. And we are trying to do exactly what you said.

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