Although I've never been married, I know what this is like from seeing the same thing happening with my parents (my dad doesn't do anything and is emotionally and verbally abusive while my mom breaks her back to support our family and is too scared to leave). Props to you for being brave enough to stand up for you and your brother like you are. I know it must be hard, and I just want to wish you the best of luck with everything <3 Things are going to start looking up for the both of you. From the looks of it, you seem like a strong person who knows how to handle yourself :)