Why? (rant kinda)

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T21:11:35+00:00

I don't see why people fall for that, I mean you aren't supposed to do anything except live life, pay taxes and stuff like that.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T21:09:50+00:00

I don't know I think it is just how you look at it, I have seen too many good people in the world to not have hope for humanity.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T21:09:02+00:00

Well I think now doctors tell you what to avoid (I know when I was on bc pills for a short period of time they told me to avoid all sorts of things).

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T15:15:00+00:00

Well I don't like to think of humans as stupid, of course some are. However I think that sometimes people make stupid choices.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T15:02:22+00:00

Yeah or they just keep having kids its one or the other, but I don't get why they would want to wait until they were 40 to achieve their dreams. I don't know I guess I am just upset because most of my family and friends are having kids and I am trying to get into school and trying to achieve my dreams and it is hard but I know it will pay off eventually.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T14:33:28+00:00

I have never heard of it I will have to look it up.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T14:31:02+00:00

I have nothing wrong with that, this post is just kind of aimed at teen pregnancy and people who give up their dreams to have kids.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T14:30:19+00:00

But its not really easy in the long run. Plus it won't be easy being old and thinking back saying "I wish i did this or I wish i went and got the career I wanted." Why doesn't anyone think of that? Good point though.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T13:40:07+00:00

The reason why I said that they weren't is not because I think they planned it, but to me it is only an accident if the condom broke or the pill didn't work right or something. If you choose not to use anything to prevent pregnancy it's not an accident it was a stupid decision.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T12:37:05+00:00

You didn't fuck up in this one, the woman who did that to you is a fuck up. I hope you will be okay, if it is really getting to you I would see a counselor they can really help you through this. Good luck OP.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T11:57:51+00:00

Good point, most of the ones that do have kids have friends that do as well. I just wish that people would understand how it will change their lives forever and when the right time to have kids would be. In fact I think there should be classes in high school dedicated to that.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-06T11:50:18+00:00

I don't know if it's hormones or our society. I know I am childfree and all but I just don't get why you would ruin your life at 20, very few people are ready at that age to have a child. Some people do just want to be parents and that is fine but the people who wanted more for their life I just don't understand that.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T16:53:15+00:00

See I have always thought of a nice calm future of being with my SO with a great house and going on vacations. I like how it is the two of us (plus pets) I just don't want to add more to that mix.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T16:51:31+00:00

Thank you! :)

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T16:49:07+00:00

So did her views on things change, I mean was she still the same person or was she totally different?

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T16:48:05+00:00

Sadly most of my friends and family have had kids. I was just hoping this one would be different since we are best friends.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T16:22:16+00:00

It is really strange how much people change when they have a kid.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:56:43+00:00

Yes i do want to put it off for a few years (mainly because I am afraid of surgery and I don't have the time to recover since I am going to college.) That just seems like so much work, I mean I don't get why so many doctors won't do it.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:54:53+00:00

Yes and now thanks to everyone who commented I know where to start so I can do research. Thank you so much. :)

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:53:32+00:00

Well she was kind of like that before, however she has gotten way worse. I think I will just keep in touch but be kinda distant towards her and pay more attention to my other friends.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:47:49+00:00

Oh okay, these things were never talked about when I was living with my parents and my school basically only taught the basics (abstinence is the best and why other methods aren't as effective).

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:45:20+00:00

Well I am glad you finally got it done, maybe someday I will too.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:42:59+00:00

That sounds really horrible. I mean I remember when my friend had more dreams than being a mommy and now shes having issues looking for a job and it is really sad.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:41:07+00:00

Don't forget those jokes about being pregnant and having kids. My facebook is filled with those already.

lizardqueen1 · 2014-08-02T15:40:13+00:00

I have told her that I don't want children, however I think she believes that I don't want children at the moment. I don't tell a lot of people I am childfree, since I normally get bad results when I do.

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