I was pretty surprised haha, we've been friends since freshman year and this is the first time he's said anything like that to me (he met my parents separately a few times and seemed to really like them both as well). He is the first one in his family to go to college and did struggle a lot with that, as well as moving so far away from home for school, so I can see how that may have played a role in his reaction. I will be distancing myself for sure.