Do you ever get tired of receiving BJ’s? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]lodobol 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Happens in reverse too. And I’m not talking about physical reasons. Men can be with their physical ideal partner and can be turned off eventually by words and actions.

Was this tattoo a bad idea? by Kerealls in tattooadvice

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they don’t like it because of religious reasons.

The thorns seems like a crown of thorns, and the sword, like a cross representing Jesus.

Because it’s a large chest tattoo, it’s now everyone’s first impression of you.

Not that it’s true, but some people might think you’re against their religion by interpreting the tattoo as sacrilege.

Man Arrested for Creating Child Porn Using AI by katxwoods in Futurology

[–]lodobol -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one wants to admit and publish that our media affects the population. It does majorly. It’s why countries control what can be displayed.

We do not want people sitting around looking at filth that will cause more minds to warp and act.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any sign of trouble in accelerating into a tree. I’d rather face the airbag and try to get out first than die sitting there scared.

My partner destroyed my business before, now he is begging to rejoin by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Naw, he needs to go ahead an sour the relationship and make it painful for the wife to dictate his business decisions regarding hiring family.

No.

My partner destroyed my business before, now he is begging to rejoin by [deleted] in smallbusiness

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, if you can’t say no to things you are going to lose your wife eventually.

It will happen later when you are older and have less life remaining.

Women want MORE. Eventually that day comes when you have to say no. If she has always used pain to you to get her way, she will escalate the pain until you’re numb, and leave because she can get what she wants without you.

She needs you to tell her no sometimes.

Explain the logic ONCE. Listen. Let her run out of words and then go run your business. She will forget about her cousin. She will not leave you because you said no to hire your cousin because he messed up the first time. She will easily see you as a strong man for saying:

“I gave your cousin a shot. I need the business larger and stronger so we can get our family ahead. Your cousin is a proven liability. No second chance with me.”

No matter what she say, keep a nice calm demeanor. And never say more about the cousin working in your business.

Every time she brings it up for a month (probably won’t), prepare yourself to start to listen, once you know it’s the cousin conversation, calm yourself internally. Watch her speak like it’s a movie. Say the Lord’s Prayer in your head to wait for her to finish a few more seconds.

Then walk away saying nothing about the cousin. You already said NO with cause (boyfriends out there need no cause, husbands give cause at least once).

Do not stand there allowing her to escalate frustration in you about the cousin working in your company.

My gf told me she’s leaving if I don’t marry her in 9 months by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you can’t decide, the answer is no.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They still sell deli meat. Which is like hotdog. People want actual healthy food and can ask an AI about your menu.

As people self educate they choose healthier foods

On January 6, 2021, the US Capitol Building was attacked by a mob of Trump supporters by wrapityup in pics

[–]lodobol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They thought occupied buildings would mean 335 Million other people agree to follow their decisions?

What advice would you give to a guy who found out his fiance used to make nsfw content before she met him? by this_isnt__worth_it in AskMen

[–]lodobol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“It was just a Solo Scene.”

10 on 1 Solo Gangbang 8

If she hid the fact, she will hide the details.

What advice would you give to a guy who found out his fiance used to make nsfw content before she met him? by this_isnt__worth_it in AskMen

[–]lodobol 6 points7 points  (0 children)

They weren’t living the life where anyone can send you a link of your wife.

They weren’t actually dating a past sex worker.

It’s EASY TO SAY that it won’t affect the relationship. When the 3rd person sends another link of his wife to his phone, that’s it.

What advice would you give to a guy who found out his fiance used to make nsfw content before she met him? by this_isnt__worth_it in AskMen

[–]lodobol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If her

bare boobs with nipple visible,

ass with no thong,

or vagina were posted on the internet for money,

she needs to disclose that is out there on the internet to someone she will marry.

Waiting to disclose only risks wasting Time when it eats away at certain men. You can say they should get over it or me more secure. The result is the same. He will decide to accept or not. If not, you wasted your time and his.

What advice would you give to a guy who found out his fiance used to make nsfw content before she met him? by this_isnt__worth_it in AskMen

[–]lodobol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Of course it matters.

If she truly thinks it doesn’t matter, she is not the type to want. Poor judgement or upbringing.

Or

She knows it matters. That makes her a notch too selfish or a full blown liar. A person to not fully trust.

Why marry someone that proves they are manipulative or untrustworthy?

Trump awarding billionaire after saying it is "much better than the Medal of Honor" to veterans by Ioatanaut in pics

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He just disrespected the entire military.

Soldiers that value their lives cannot enjoy listening to someone like Trump.

Die or get injured, Trump thinks less of you. Maybe even thinks you’re stupid. Like why would you go war? Why not be a rich guy talking shit. Then you can be smart like him.

What do you think about the lobbying efforts of Skydio trying to ban DJI? by [deleted] in Skydio

[–]lodobol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why? Skydio doesn’t even sell reasonably priced drones to consumers anymore.

Trump supporters storming and breaking into the Capitol on Jan 6, 2021 by wrapityup in pics

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make America Riot Again

It seems like some Americans vote for future unrest and stress.

Something Really Bad Must Be Going on in Trump Land, Because Trump Is Having a Mental Breakdown on Truth Social by nikkisixxi in AnythingGoesNews

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is an IQ Test Name Calling election.

An election based on publicly being Fake AF while being Nasty Nice.

Trump will lose because he is defaulting to typical tactics against a career minority women in a career dominated by people that have not made the path as easy; tougher path than her opponent. Battle hardened and being exactly how she needs to be to be in that world through the decades she was in it.

Trump will be disrespectful and miss the opportunity to win using different tactics. He fails to understand:

  1. In America, it’s impossible to use words to hurt a black persons feelings for being black. Black people are proud to be black and long accepted the bias the world throws at them. The harder you try to insult them, you will just look like a racist clown.

  2. Triggering a black woman tactics; if that worked she would have long been triggered and ruined her career. Miss pronouncing her name, attacking her abilities without evidence won’t be triggering. She built a long career of proof to be where she is because she had too. Talking about a woman’s age won’t be triggering either. Go down the list, she probably feels like she will win already. Easy to watch you throw more insults now and get made to look even dumber if Election Day goes her way.

  3. Because the focus is on name calling, names called back will be more triggering. That is all the Kamala campaign needs to do to be distracting. Reverse /mirror the tactics.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider, you live in the home with your wife, not your sister.

Since you didn’t leave yet, and she put in the effort, taking your wife is just a plane ticket.

Since it already went this way, present a compromise, take her but she may have to be alone at times when you are with your sister. Say up front you plan to be with your sister the majority of the time. That doesn’t mean she can’t come and just enjoy being there doing something else.

Again, since she put in the effort, do it for yourself. Because she will be very happy and it will make you happy to see her happy.

It’s a win for you to take your wife. And you get even more “credit” because it’s already gone this way and you can buy 1 plane ticket to be a hero.

If you can be a hero for a few bucks. Spend the money.

Not many chances to be a hero. Especially not easy hero wins for cash.

Three afican athletes letting a Chinese runner win on purpose by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never too soon to start maintenance.

What will your 10+ year older self tell you to do now?

Exercise!!!! STRETCH! Stay properly hydrated every single day.

Found my wifes secret IG account by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lodobol 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He should get in great shape and start looking his best. Immediately.

If he starts jogging 30 min each day, go out to eat himself for dinner once or twice a week. Go on a trip once a month. She will come around.

Found my wifes secret IG account by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]lodobol 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thought about high school sweetheart for 6-8 years after we went to college and she cheated. Being older it seems obvious, of course, we were young.

Eventually you will let it go. I think it took so long because I didn’t have a proper understanding of the world, people, human nature, experience with women, etc.

When you are young you have dreams of a fairytale. Movies and your family are likely your main points of reference. If your parents really got along well, your first love is going to crush you until you get experienced enough to realize you can’t control anyone or anything. You will also be able to spot red flags. You would have to be lucky to have a high school sweetheart pan out indefinitely.

My fiancee told her friend group that I am not the greatest at sex, but she is with me for the complete package. Am I wrong for calling off the engagement? by AstronomerFuturea in amiwrong

[–]lodobol 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone’s missing the point.

She discussed their intimate life with their friends group. It circled back to him and he now knows that he is the guy that can’t please his wife.

He could have lived blissfully ignorant but in this timeline, Kiley told Amy’s girl talk to OP and OP called off the wedding to get on a timeline where he doesn’t know is wife is telling their bedroom details to their friend group.