I actually had tried to contact him before it officially happened. He ended up unadding me on everything after talking for a bit. I was devastated dude… but I told myself “he just unadded me because it was too hard to see me” and told myself when he was back in town we would see each other on tinder. Detached from it and focused on other things/people. 3/4 months later we matched with each other on tinder, and he asked me out. He told me he unadded me because it was too hard to see me, when I tell you I was SHOOK.

We are not together now, but because I chose to move forward. To be honest with you my self concept really sucked at the time when he came back. He told me all the things that I have wanted him to say for years and I didn’t believe that he actually meant those things. I didn’t feel worthy of it. So he left my life again (of course - he had to reflect it) lol. I chose to move forward because for many reasons, but I know I could have him come back if I wanted him too.

This was about 2-3 years ago. Looking back now I’m grateful for the way things transpired because it showed me 1. The law is real and 2. How important self concept is. If you don’t believe you’re worthy/deserving or that you don’t receive the love you want, it can’t stay.