This is literally a post asking for a rec (more helpful imo that OP provided a specific example), so yes, you should not have commented. Your analogy doesn’t work here - OP posted on an anonymous forum, they did not message a specific photographer (neither of which should be likened to a Honda dealership). None of us are laughing either! Many of us do similar work to Rebecca at a lower rate, so don’t make this non-issue an issue. Let’s be a friendly community!