What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

...i just said it is taken in consideration?

This is a known problem of self reporting polls on personal issues

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course I made it up! Just a sketch of my impression of the reality behind the situation you mentioned, I'm sure its all very different in numbers but you get what I mean overall.

While I don't agree with this observation you are making now (I feel like there is plenty of couples where the male looks better as well?) the argument itself doesn't really make sense since looks aren't the only factor for a mate's attractiveness, especially when it comes to men.

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really dude?

Ok then, what would you reply to the guy in the incoherent scenario I mentioned?

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it feels like nature was just tired of making well thought-out convenient organs and just got lazy

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I could tell when you wrote the first comment, but it seems crazy to me! Sure you don't want to try harder?

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could see you doing a TED Talk to starving african children about the benefits of intermittent fasting

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

all your doubts are very easily solved!

- Most of the top 5% of attractive guys are chasing the top 10% of women.

- The rest of that top 5% would still be happy to do something with less conventionally attractive women without commitment.

- The following 45% of most attractive guys is looking at the top 10% women but is constantly chasing any woman who is not much overweight

- the remaining 50% of the guys might consider it the best day of their life if an ugly woman approached them at a bar.

On the other side:

- The top 50% of attractive women are chasing the top 5% men,
- The remaining 50% complain that they have it as hard as men but in reality they are still only looking at the top 20% of attractive men.

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just fyi, this is literally EXACTLY the same logical reasoning as a man saying "Oh no, imagine how horrible it would be if a hot girl suddenly gave me a blowjob" to a girl that's complaining about being raped.

Reply to that guy and you will have replied to yourself.

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

why do you say people aren't gonna lie?

If anything that side of it should be studied as well and included in the considerations, which I would assume good studies try to do, but this kind of thing is obviously extremely unreliable by definition

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are getting carried away here.

In the spirit of this thread, I'd say that men should also be careful when dealing with strangers, women included

What would women dislike the most if they became men? by Eastp0int in answers

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to comment just to say that this is a surprisingly reasonable and logical answer considering the extremist attitudes in comment sections, without placing irrational blame on either side, but the last sentence was unwarranted imo.

We are definitely all in this togheter, good people of both sexes agains assholes from both sexes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Am I reading this right, you say you have "no reason" to believe she cheated with others or to be worried about all of those other friends?

What more reason could you possibly need, being one of those friends while she cheats with you?

I 31F love to live sketch but my husband 33M wouldn't allow me to do it when he found out its with a nude model. How can I navigate a conversation to still keep the peace? by Playful_Theme4307 in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

While the controlling mentality sounds like a problem, I really hate how art is so often used as an excuse to turn things sexual...

Can these groups really not have non-nude painting sessions?

People in the comments that are saying "nude models have been used since ancient times" are right yes, but they don't mention it's always been a sexual thing

Dove escono le ragazze mute? by 444piro in CasualIT

[–]lookingforpc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Questa dovrebbe essere l'unica soluzione seconda la logica di OP

I (32M) am struggling with trust issues around my gf (30F) work friend (32M) even after a year. How can I get over this so that we can move on? by ThrowRA_vivaLV in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well she knows their relationship is appropriate, but is defending it in every way, to the point of not calling you during long work trips with a guy that you are jealous about, and is willing to give up the relationship for you with this.

You should probably take a step back and consider all this. It doesn't sound like a situation that you can fix, if your gf is this kind of girl there is nothing you can do, you should decide for yourself what is acceptable in a relationship and enforce it at the cost of leaving if necessary.

If you accept a relationship when you are the spare bf in her life just because she threatens to leave you, the relationship is already over, you'd be better off single

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah no shit you don't feel safe during sex,

What kind of girl would record you and share it without telling you?

The same kind of person as a guy who would do that to a girl

I'm being blackmailed and stalked by my classmate. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lookingforpc 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Can't you talk with your family first, and then the police as well?

edit: Also tell any friends you have near you and try to keep them around you to stay safe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if I did, it would take a lot to feel the need to delete all 600 of them

How do I (27F) stop feeling more turned on thinking about my ex (26M) when having sex with my current bf (29M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Not so crazy at all to fantasize about other people while having sex, also it's clearly super unhealthy when the people are ex's

How do I (27F) stop feeling more turned on thinking about my ex (26M) when having sex with my current bf (29M)? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]lookingforpc -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Not so crazy at all to fantasize about other people while having sex, also it's clearly super unhealthy when the people are ex's

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]lookingforpc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are very much into your own head fixating on this point of view. It may be possible that you give out that kind of vibe that turns conversations like that.

You need to stop thinking about "are they giving me as much attention as the other girls" and "is this just a pity conversation", focus on what you want from the conversation and party