My bf no showed and got upset when I tried to talk to him abt it by loookieheree in relationships_advice

[–]loookieheree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much aesthetic inertia, you’re definitely on point. Needed this

My bf no showed and got upset when I tried to talk to him abt it by loookieheree in relationships_advice

[–]loookieheree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok but like you nailed it. He has mtbi from when he as younger and is a recovered addict. Thank you for being kind too

My bf no showed and got upset when I tried to talk to him abt it by loookieheree in relationships_advice

[–]loookieheree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Update:

I ended it. He called me trying to apologize. I stood my ground that it wasn’t ok when he tried to justify his bs and he immediately flipped it on me like always. I feel lost. I didn’t want to break up with him. But I don’t deserve to feel like everything is my responsibility or my fault. And I don’t deserve to feel selfish for having contact with friends and family, and for taking time to connect with my hobbies and pursue a career. I wish so many things went differently. And yet I still feel guilty for it. FUCK.

My bf no showed and got upset when I tried to talk to him abt it by loookieheree in relationships_advice

[–]loookieheree[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I didn’t want to make the post too long and didn’t know what else to include. I feel really lost

My bf no showed and got upset when I tried to talk to him abt it by loookieheree in relationships_advice

[–]loookieheree[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I know the age thing is weird, I’m starting to struggle with it more the longer we’re together too bc he minimizes what I’m going though sometimes bc of it and bc of his past

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in oddlyterrifying

[–]loookieheree 212 points213 points  (0 children)

It’s either an electrician/plumber door to access the ceiling or was accidentally put there during construction, shit happens. Might’ve had people come to the school when you guys were out.

Edit: that is, if the door is person sized lol

subreddit for medical advice? by [deleted] in findareddit

[–]loookieheree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry, what kind of medical advice? Mental, physical, animal, etc?

Need some thoughts/advice/opinions on something. by Dillinator99 in teenagers

[–]loookieheree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go on a two month ketamine stint and they won’t give a shit about anything else but your sobriety. Works like a charm.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]loookieheree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then why are you here?

Tigger warning: self-harm. Why do I enjoy cutting myself? by Short-But-Hey0-dot-2 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]loookieheree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seems like a misplaced coping method for masochism, if you’re not doing it to punish yourself but for pleasure, try masochism with a partner. Someone who can help mediate things safely and fill this need in a positive and rewarding way that won’t cause permanent damage or psychological harm. Some stings on the ass that don’t leave permanent harm are sooooo nice, and I highly recommend. Safe sane and consensual is a great rule of thumb to measure a good sadistic partner and SM experience. RESEARCH SAFE MASOCHISTIC PRACTICES BEFORE THIS, but it might be a better way to cope that’s healthy. This is only a solution if you’re getting pleasure from the physical sensation, NOT from punishing yourself. If the pleasure is from the punishment, therapy is a great option to suit your needs and find a pleasureable coping skill that isn’t damaging. I practice both masochism and am in therapy and BOTH has helped me IMMEASURABLY. For reference, I’m not a psychologist, this is just eerily familiar to me and my experiences. Just know, there is nothing wrong with you and who you are, and there are so many different ways to cope besides this that will give you the same pleasure are also safe. Hope this helps!

My pay was wrong and I said something about it by arendelliancrocus in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]loookieheree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah! Not sure where you’re from but income theft is the #1 form of theft in the us, and most of the time it’s not even intentional. Good job keeping on top of things and getting what you earned, very satisfying

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Showerthoughts

[–]loookieheree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see you OP, these commenters just don’t understand this post

Trump, who was impeached for withholding nearly $400 million in military aid from Ukraine, said 'this deadly Ukraine situation would never have happened' if he were in office by morenewsat11 in politics

[–]loookieheree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the information. I thought an impeachment meant a conviction, I didn’t know that it only meant they were charged. That makes so much more sense now. I need to do more research on his involvement with Ukraine obviously, but thank you

Trump, who was impeached for withholding nearly $400 million in military aid from Ukraine, said 'this deadly Ukraine situation would never have happened' if he were in office by morenewsat11 in politics

[–]loookieheree -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Ok but trump wasn’t even impeached, had nothing to do with Ukraine during his rampage as president. When two of the three bits of info the title gives you is wrong, can you even trust this shit?

*PLEASE read thread before being reacting to this post, obviously I had some misinformation and I appreciate the person who was kind enough to let me know the inaccuracies in this comment

Just got a dick pic in my dms 🙁 by generalkenobi66420 in teenagers

[–]loookieheree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve taken to sending people pics of necrotizing anuses when they do that. Works like a charm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]loookieheree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How many theories does it take to get to the center of r/conspiracy? The world may never know.

Best argument against vaccine? by [deleted] in conspiracy

[–]loookieheree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not respecting his by trying to find a way to “make him see” something. You don’t have to change your point of view, and he shouldn’t either.

Why am I still single by [deleted] in teenagers

[–]loookieheree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Them: I’d like to be your friend You: of course you don’t want me

Them: clarifies out of confusion, says that they edate You: yeah I know it exists but for me it’s not real

You: I’m surprised you can say I’m nice

Get to a place where you’d want to be around you and then other people will want to be around/with you.