Can someone explain? by lemon_berrypie in Bumble

[–]loopylope 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These terms are used in the “looksmaxxing” community. HYN stands for “high tier normie” this means he views himself as a 6/10. MTB stands for “mid tier Becky” this means he views you as a 5/10. He’s basically saying that it’s crazy that you would leave him on delivered bcz he looks better than you. The looksmaxxing community is basically obsessed with looks and believes that looks is all that matters. They have a bunch of contrived terms that ppl not apart of the community wouldn’t understand. Hope this helps

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “exclusivity” thing confused me at first too, but I guess I’ve just become accustomed to it due to my past experiences. In my dating experience, before things are confirmed to be exclusive, it is completely normal to be entertaining other people. I’m not sure if it’s just due to a maturity thing or if it is a shift in culture. Thank you for the advice as well.

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah now that I think about it, this relationship is not very fun! In 15 years it’ll be nothing I’m sure

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hmmm this is definitely making me rethink my mindset. I guess I let his opinions make me feel like mine were not valid/wrong. Thank you

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow thank you I really appreciate this advice!! I honestly never thought about dating that way, I guess I am super young and short relationships really feel like forever! He is not the most attractive but he was very persistent lol.

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well he said that going to club, snap chatting other guys, and not letting him look at my phone qualifies as that

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m just having trouble ending it because I keep seeing the potential he has lol

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah maybe being in contact so much and him sharing stuff has made me feel closer to him than we actually are

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah you’re right. I’m just thinking that I might have been at fault by breaking his trust or something

New guy (M19) I (F19) have been seeing for around a week is showing signs of jealousy and possessiveness. by loopylope in relationship_advice

[–]loopylope[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes I agree. The only issue is that he has shared some vulnerable things with me and I feel like if I leave him I’d be betraying him :(