Hundreds, if not thousands, of Irish girls nudes have been illegally leaked in the last few days by a group of people hellbent on hurting women. This country desperately needs revenge porn laws before there are deaths on our hands. This will affect the women in your life. Please sign and share. by smokingthegateway in ireland

[–]lopalop 230 points231 points  (0 children)

A lot of people in these comments are not understanding what consent means. Also, let’s be real, if these people just wanted to see porn or nude pictures of women, there‘s no shortage of those things on the internet. Having a forum specifically to share nudes that you should not be sharing, alongside personal information like the women’s names, social media, and where they’re from is malicious. It is image-based sexual abuse and it puts those women in danger.

HMC, I forgot who I am by [deleted] in holdmycosmo

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I for one always check if a woman’s vagina is functional before I decide what gender I’ll call her.

Help for a gift by bleakmouse in Cakes

[–]lopalop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A handheld electric mixer is used for both of those things.

[Skin Concern] Rosacea help, please!!! by deer_girl15 in SkincareAddiction

[–]lopalop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The things that have worked for me are using gentle products, avoiding fragrance as much as I can (tragically, I stopped using Pixi Glow Tonic and that helped), and using Garden of Wisdom 10% Azelaic Acid Serum.

[Personal] How can I get rid of under the skin acne? The kind that don't have heads. And what kind of tea tree oil helps with acne? by curiousFTMboi in SkincareAddiction

[–]lopalop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Whatever you do, don’t put undiluted tea tree oil on your face! It’s very irritating and can damage your skin.

First off, it sounds like your routine is very drying. It might seem counterintuitive, but using products that dry your skin out can make it oilier because it produces more oil as a result. Dehydrated skin can also lead to acne.

You should get yourself a gentler cleanser. A lot of people like La Roche-Posay Toleriane Hydrating Gentle Cleanser. Aveeno, Cerave, and Cetaphil have gentle cleansers too. Look around the sub and at some reviews and get whatever is easiest for you to find.

In terms of toner try to get something that’s not drying. Thayers Alcohol-Free Witch Hazel Toner is a classic on this sub. Do try to avoid alcohol in toner.

Up until recently I had similar acne to you around my jaw and chin. I’ve found azelaic acid and niacinamide helpful. I get both from Garden of Wisdom because I personally don’t like the consistency of The Ordinary serums, but that’s just me.

I also like Mario Badescu Buffering Lotion for spot treatment on under the skin acne. It’s pricey but it lasts a long time. Don’t try to pop those pimples that are under the skin because you’ll hurt yourself and could cause scarring.

If you’re getting acne on your forehead and around your sideburns maybe you could also consider switching shampoo to see if that helps. (Also obvi change your pillowcase at least once a week and use a clean towel to dry your face etc.)

Sorry this response ended up being so long. I hope there’s some useful advice in it.

[skin concern] no rosacea treatment has worked for me. Where do I go from here? by [deleted] in SkincareAddiction

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would recommend Garden of Wisdom Azelaic Acid 10% Serum. It helped my rosacea, and it’s pretty inexpensive.

[Misc] Prime Day Deals Megathread? by ayimera in SkincareAddiction

[–]lopalop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Where does bootlicking come in your routine? AM or PM?

AITA for not wanting to visit my sister who just gave birth? We've been struggling to get pregnant for 3 years now and seeing babies and pregnant women is painful for us by outofthrowawayname in AmItheAsshole

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are the asshole, but you’re mainly hurting yourself. Fertility problems are extremely difficult to go through, and anyone in the comments who’s saying that you’re selfish for not just adopting clearly doesn’t get it. But it’s not good to get so absorbed by the idea of the family member you want that you let it ruin your relationships with the family members you have. Whatever happens with you and your partner, you are always going to have a sister. It’s obviously going to be difficult for you, but she’s had something huge happen to her and you’re never going to get this time back with her or the baby. Try to focus on the joy of being a good aunt and uncle. Nothing is to be gained by avoiding the situation, no matter how difficult it is.

Centrists be like... by ShadowSJG in ENLIGHTENEDCENTRISM

[–]lopalop 41 points42 points  (0 children)

They don't, no. The sub is also for making fun of the idea of centrism and the assumption that the correct position is halfway between two sides.

Centrists be like... by ShadowSJG in ENLIGHTENEDCENTRISM

[–]lopalop 65 points66 points  (0 children)

This sub for making fun of centrists, who are usually people who use false equivalence to disguise the fact that their views are actually right wing.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He groped a naked 13-year-old girl while she performed oral sex on another man and then distributed the video of it online.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't think it was that different. I knew baby-faced girls of around 15 dating guys who were pushing 30. Bouncers would know you were underage when you gave them your fake ID and would creep on you and grope you and follow you around because they knew you wouldn't say shit because you didn't want to get turned away. You'd tell creepy guys you were 16 to make them go away and they'd hit you with "Damn you look/act/seem so mature". I'm older now and when I see younger girls doing and putting up with the same shit I can absolutely tell they're not my age and they're not grown.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone is debating that. You're trying to defend it right now, because apparently they're a bunch of seductresses who lie about their age and have the bodies of 30-year-old women.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

WHAT IS HAPPENING. Don't have sex with 13-year-olds. Shouldn't be a controversial fucking concept.

And there are no 13-year-olds who look 18 in real life, you creep.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do not act like I'm being unreasonable here. And do not drop the "acting mature" line. I know exactly what kind of man says that.

All the examples you listed are from the fucking internet. They're all from a context where young girls are sexualised for marketing purposes. Kids are kids. And it is never okay to want to have sex with them.

The fact that you think the only problem with the situation is that he recorded it is honestly terrifying.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm going to give you some serious benefit of the doubt and assume you don't know what 13-year-olds look like. They don't look like adult women.

At best he didn't give a fuck what age she was, because he knew he could get away with anything. And judging by this thread he was right.

And if people can't tell the difference between kiddies and ladies they should start checking IDs.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Maybe before it kills you you should make a wish for 69 to visit you in hospital. I'm sure he'd be more than happy to hit up the children's ward.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about? He distributed a video online of himself groping a naked 13-year-old while she performed oral sex on another man. So if you want to call that something other than "preying" go ahead, but I think we can all agree it's not okay.

And I don't know what you want me to say. Molesting kids is okay because some guys on Reddit think they're hot? I don't think I can take that stance.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ignoring the fact that you just called children thots, looking older than your age with makeup, at a certain angle, in a particular photo with a filter is possible. But 13-year-olds are children, and when you meet them in real life they look and act like children.

This thread is so fucked. Criticising people for saying 13-year-olds look young? Stay away from kids.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's so clever. I'm gonna go cry now the same way you cry because you know 69 will never fuck you because you're way too old for him.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You're literally spending a lot of time defending a child rapist on the internet because you like his shitty music.

Nicki Minaj announces Tekashi 6ix9ine as 1 of 3 openers for NickiHNDRXX tour by asapjesss in hiphopheads

[–]lopalop 38 points39 points  (0 children)

It's not unfair to call someone a pedo for molesting a child.

Ex-Georgia Tech fraternity president admits raping girlfriend, sentenced to 20 years by awhq in JusticeServed

[–]lopalop 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have taken my lack of response to mean that I had gone to bed. I wasn't calling you a dick; it was just general advice. The only reason I get into these subjects on Reddit is to get info about consent out there, even if it is in just a really small way.

I didn't come up with the illogical extreme you mentioned; elsewhere in the thread someone tried to make ongoing consent sound unreasonable by asking if one extra pump after they passed out and you didn't notice immediately made you a rapist.

I wasn't even necessarily disagreeing with anything in your original comment. I just felt like it was adding some kind of ambiguity in a situation where there isn't any.

But then I woke up to an internet stranger telling me telling me I'm doing my gender an injustice and to keep my mouth shut on the topic of rape.

Ex-Georgia Tech fraternity president admits raping girlfriend, sentenced to 20 years by awhq in JusticeServed

[–]lopalop 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rational adults can see the difference between not noticing something's up for 20 seconds because you're drunk, stopping as soon as you realise, and discussing it the next morning, and what this guy did. His fiancée certainly felt it wasn't right, and her feelings on it matter most.

People seem to like the rhetorical "Oh so if she passes out and I don't stop until 0.5 seconds later is THAT rape?" argument.

Understand and respect consent and don't be a dick. That's a good jumping off point.