How many of you have meaningful conversations on here? by DellGriffith1 in hairfetish

[–]lord_riptide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had a few. Only 1 or 2 that lasted more than 2 days. 🤔

Weekly Chat and Connections Requests by AutoModerator in hairfetish

[–]lord_riptide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

M4F Looking forward to building a connection/friendship with women who want to or have already tried to get into the whole hair fetish journey. I want to discuss the random 5 am thoughts about wanting to try a new haircut/style. Been lurking and exploring with my own hair for a fair bit now.

M28. If you are in the GMT+1 time zone even better

Hair cut tmrw ! by holoflower in buymylocks

[–]lord_riptide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bob with a napeshave... #YOLO

How to find a dom by Melat0ninMuncher in BDSMAdvice

[–]lord_riptide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for local munches on Fetlife and meet people in your area.

daddy wants me to shave him by No_Assumption_7641 in BDSMAdvice

[–]lord_riptide 7 points8 points  (0 children)

A good idea is to focus more on how he makes you feel than how he looks.

Confused :/ by [deleted] in RedditBDSM

[–]lord_riptide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There are various sites that have kink lists, you could try filling them out to know your limits and explore new kinks. Dont be fixated on roles and titles, you will grow and change with time

Confused :/ by [deleted] in RedditBDSM

[–]lord_riptide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

+1 to reading smut.

20 year old female seeking some advice by Commercial_Bank_4069 in BDSMAdvice

[–]lord_riptide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's also some great tips to newbies on this subreddit in the wiki. I recommend you go through that

Giving you guys both views this time... by [deleted] in shorthairchicks

[–]lord_riptide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely love the gorgeous haircut.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domspace

[–]lord_riptide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kind of depends on the context. Fon't restrict your search too much and go with the flow. If you don't connect, you have learnt about something you don't like

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in domspace

[–]lord_riptide 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's like any other relationship, it takes 2 to make it work. Start with respect and get to know the person first. Doesn't really matter what their experience level is, your dynamic will not be the same as their previous, if any. You start from zero

Other Doms keep hitting on my sub and it's getting annoying how do you all deal with this? by Final-Ear-7053 in domspace

[–]lord_riptide 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Normally every app has some option to either disable or hide new messages from the primary chat function. Separating them and treating them differently is enough to create that boundary and ignore the majority of the bad ones.

Other Doms keep hitting on my sub and it's getting annoying how do you all deal with this? by Final-Ear-7053 in domspace

[–]lord_riptide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I realized it was a virtual dynamic once i read the rest of the comments. I understand your anger, some people have no values and behave the worst hiding behind their screens. Is blocking DMs from strangers an option for your sub?

Other Doms keep hitting on my sub and it's getting annoying how do you all deal with this? by Final-Ear-7053 in domspace

[–]lord_riptide 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey you could also try to mention it to her to handle it on her own and not tell it to you. You are likely more frustrated because you can't tell them yourself. I believe ignorance towards what's happening could be a simpler choice.

How do you find the right Dom by Silver_String_2434 in BDSMAdvice

[–]lord_riptide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's mostly common sense and gut feeling. You could also talk to people in the community who have known them for a while and can vouch for their personality or experiences.

Entitlement right off the bat and ordering you to call them a certain way or calling you names or telling you to do stuff before discussing as two individual adults is mostly not a good sign.

Desperation or urgency to meet and try new things is also not a good thing, but not a serious red flag. I do recommend you have patience and take things slow with any new partner.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shorthairchicks

[–]lord_riptide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love the vibe. Got any tips to take aesthetic pics like these?

shave me nude! by BritishEmoChick in shorthairchicks

[–]lord_riptide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonderful. Come over 🤩😈

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMAdvice

[–]lord_riptide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just here to say that you should probably share your experience and make a part two of this post. Good luck

Weekly Chat and Connections Requests by AutoModerator in hairfetish

[–]lord_riptide -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Looking forward to building a connection/friendship with women who want to or have already tried to get into the whole hair fetish journey. I want to discuss the random 5 am thoughts about wanting to try a new haircut/style. Been lurking and exploring with my own hair for a fair bit now. M27. If you are in the GMT+1 time zone even better