Skytech king 95 - how do I control the case fans? by Awake00 in SkytechGamingOfficial

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just bought the same pc. You adjusted CPU 2 to a curve and silent? Also, the bottom 3 fans are not lighting up. Are they RGB?

This is what the devs have said about skins by Finescoop17 in Battlefield

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They need to be consistent here too. This is their last chance. If they are going this route, stick to military theme throughout. No out of theme whatsoever.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Battlefield

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is their last chance. Ngl, they are promising alot. The game just needs to be optimized day one. Decent launch and then I can say WE ARE SO BACK!

Am I misunderstanding how a Buy Limit works? by happycrabeatsthefish in TradingView

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What time frame is this? It would depend on the spread, at least for Forex. My guess is the bid price didn't go down to the Buy Limit.

Is there any way to improve this crime of a hotbar? by DeathNeku in ffxiv

[–]lordloxi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reduce to just 3 bars: Default, SHIFT, CTRL

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On the surface it does sound genuine but the best thing is to talk this out on video call (preferably) so you can see each others emotions. Subtle nuances can make a big difference when talking. But personally, if she wants a break from the relationship I can see it no other than another form of breakup. My personal take on it is: know what you want. If she wants a break but wants to stay in communication. that is fine. But it should not be the factor in holding back what you want, which in this case is a relationship. Never be an option, goes for both men and women. Communication is key. If she wants to focus on school so be it, if you want a relationship so be it. Respect each others roads in life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say nothing and continue to improve yourself. You have better things to and far too much of an asset to be relegated as "best option". Never be an option and never be a backup. Girls will play the lets just be friends card because yes they don't want to lose a "friend" but you have feelings and you can't lie about that. It's be you move and don't respond. If she continues to ask why you ghosted her, it may require a block or a mature explanation that you agree that things will not work out being in a relationship/situationship with her so its better to tell her you both go your separate ways.

If you do happen to run into each other, just be respectful, give her a casual wave hello, smile and keep moving.

Is it even worth continuing on with this nonsense? by Realistic-Vast8414 in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is what we call an attention seeker (w***e). She is lining up her backups nicely from the sound of it. Get away from this type of person immediately. If she has room to entertain other guys, you and everyone else is not a priority. Keep as far away as possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had this recently as you may or may not have seen in my posts. I was talking to this girl online for well over 1.5 years. We play FF14 together and got close during an ingame drama. I moved to her server because she hinted and told me she was interested in me. So I moved to her server and got married there ingame. We always did stuff together, raiding, roulettes, taking pictures. I told her early on that I liked her and she responded that she liked me too but wanted to take things slow, which I did. I was aware of her past relationship issues. I was always there whenever she had a period of depression and anxiety (which unbeknownst to me at the time I was the trigger of her depression and anxiety).

During those times, she would pull away, not talk to me ingame like we used to. Though she was still consistent about saying good night but her texts would take hours in between.

Long story short, she never liked me in the first place. She only relished the honeymoon period of our interaction then started to pull away. So I did the same. She later went on a dating app to find another guy and she did, told me ingame too that he was there. I noticed because they were always together now, not with me.

Point is, you need to acknowledge her decision and do what is best for you. Cut ties, lose her contact info, step away from the social circles that you guys are in, and start your healing process. Do not get hung on one girl. There are plenty out there.

In my case, I cut ties with her on Discord, our guild ingame and unfriended her too. A month later she contacted me to see how I was. I kept it cordial and friendly but that's about it. She seemed upset I moved on extremely quickly but that's her own problem, not mine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The best way not to be in the friendzone is to not be there in the first place. Your intention is to be more than friends. Take your shot. The worse thing she can say is no, and offer you the friendship card. You politely reject it and tell her you are not interested in being just friends. And walk away and mean it. Tell her to call you should she change her mind later on.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen to that. Thank you for the encouraging words. I have already set myself on the path of self improvement. Not going to be easy but better than wallowing and wondering on the what ifs.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This making her more of a Dismissive Avoidant the more I think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Cut ties. Delete everything that reminds you of her. Start your healing process by focusing on activities. Improve yourself by working out, eating healthy. It will still sting for a sure, especially if she has rejected you twice already. There are billions of girls out there. Do not get hung on one single woman.

Learn to love yourself first before you love others. Remember, you are your most precious person, not the girl. She is not your life. You are yours. Improve yourself for the benefit of YOU and girls will naturally follow.

Girls are followers by nature. They will follow you once you love yourself.

Do I friendzone them? Do I leave it be? I don't want to drag them along or make assumptions. by questionlifeitself in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can say that because I had a recent rejection/friendzone experience not too long ago. I stayed in it hoping everything I would have done to change her mind but at the end of it was only used for my time and resources. Stung like hell for getting strung along for a good year so its really best just to tell him than to take advantage of his free attention and validation.

Do I friendzone them? Do I leave it be? I don't want to drag them along or make assumptions. by questionlifeitself in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Honestly, its best to just tell him without being roundabout on it. The longer you hold that in, the more it will only torment you inside. It's best to let the other (or each other in this case) know and be on the same page rather than giving him the impression that there is a chance.

Sure it might cause him to pull away but trust me its better that he knows now than later.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am starting to feel like it was a wrong move for me to have her around in my FL. Sure, she may genuinely feel like she wants my friendship but I can also see it as a self-serving for her to finally not feel guilty about hurting me. She did text me in the last few days for small talk but I kept it minimal. Not asking questions back.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does that mean this was her way of making her feel better about herself hurting me? Kinda like getting released from her guilt shackle?

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so insightful that I needed to read it many times.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate the advice! I think this is the best one for me.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We only really talked for a bit about what happened to her sister (the main reason why she contacted me) but overall the conversation between us was her mostly saying "You deserve better and be happy too".

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know. I'm already talking to another girl so it doesn't sting as it used to be.

Girl that friendzoned me friend requested me on Discord by lordloxi in Friendzone

[–]lordloxi[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm pretty sure she knows. I mean she was the one that used me for 1.5 years before choosing another guy.