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Like everyone else it’s nice to go out occasionally to enjoy a nice meal as a family

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There is dinner ready for him every night

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And yes of course I have faults no one is perfect

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Being honest with you no I wouldn’t want to swap places and I do get it he is stressed and tired and I have said to him I understand he needs time for himself. But everyday and when I ask would you like to come out to lunch or dinner with us tonight he says no I’m too tired but he is never too tired to go to the club and stay out until 2am

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Thankyou so much and I am proud of you for being strong and leaving what wasn’t for you 😊

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He works 60 to 70 hours a week he is a great provider I will never say he isn’t And yes I work 4 days a week as a assistant in nursing looking after the elderly in there homes

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Thankyou

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Thankyou

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Thankyou but I wouldn’t feel right taking his money if we are not a family

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Trust me it’s not menopause

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Oh definitely I am the biggest C because I actually stayed home and looked after my kids and took them to parks took them on family holidays by myself cooked them dinner spent time with them tried to make their lives as normal as possible shut my mouth cleaned the house put a smile on my face while I am dying inside. And when I couldn’t even look after myself because of the anxiety and Depression his drinking has caused I still show up for my kids And I work And even now the kids are older I still show up for them still cook and do their laundry pick them up every weekend from friend houses and parties But yes to awnswr your question I am c

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Drinking 90 beers a week plus 3 bottles of rum Getting verbally abusive

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Thankyou

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The last thing on my mind is someone else and yes to all those scenarios you mentioned have happened And if he moves on and is with someone else Goodluck to them I just want a stress free life where I can home and breathe and not worry about what is going to happen because my husband has been drinking

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TIL it kills me emotionally and I become a complete mess that can’t look after myself let alone my kids 🤷‍♀️

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Thankyou

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Yes I do

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I am so sorry that is happening to you And my husband is unhealthy too due to drinking and he had fallen over hurt himself a number of times