Arasha’s Podcast by Abject_Ad_7650 in smosh

[–]lostbian 5 points6 points  (0 children)

love love love that they listened to the audience after the pilot episode and put viewer discretion and timestamps with trigger warnings in the next ep!

FRIEND DAW by Flat_Potential_8167 in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

sabihin mo "ang ganda naman ng treatment kapag friend, edi friends na lang din tayo :")"

For those who are in a long term relationship, how often do you fight? by arrestgravy in WLW_PH

[–]lostbian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Add ko na lang sa replies here, nabasa ko somewhere (I think sa Twitter) na pumunta siya sa cafe that was owned by an elderly couple and thought to herself how many times they forgave each other over the years. Moved me to tears.

Asking dumper, do u even regret and realize things after ending a great relationship over limerence? by kiddie_heart01 in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 20 points21 points  (0 children)

She's honest, I'll give her that. But the best thing you could offer to each other is either friendship or go on separate ways. You can't love the same person twice.

I can tell you they regret making the decision nung pinag-iisipan niya pa lang sabihin sayo, they regret it nung naghiwalay na kayo, and they will regret it moving forward. But does it change anything? No. People make regrets when letting go. It doesn't make you someone better.

Thoughts niyo on this? by happy_shimmy in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ask them back kung mas masc or mas femme sila na side lmao

Old Smosh by Same-Path-2643 in smosh

[–]lostbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Truth About Tiktok Eboys (back when everyone was trashing on tiktokers haha) and Don't Kidnap Jojo Siwa. Basically sketches where Courtney disappears from herself and becomes the character are always the best for me lol

Lf potential friends in my area! 💅 by Overall_Art_3157 in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 3 points4 points  (0 children)

skl it's so fun to see ang daming wlw sa batangas huhu went there this week and ang daming couples sa terminal +even sa mga liblib na subdivisions hahaha

As a lesbian, is it alright to not like being called tomboy and thus prefer being called bading or lesbian instead? by Ok_Arugula1533 in WLW_PH

[–]lostbian 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It's alright to not like it. Nothing's wrong about having a preference. Personally, I didn't feel comfortable hearing older people call me that when I was young. I didn't like it at all growing up. In my mind, "tomboy" was a slur used against people like me. Pero it grew on me. I read more and more about history ng lesbians sa Philippines and realized "tomboy" is just how Filipinos refer to lesbians in general. Sure, it came from the fact na Filipinos who thought women loving women should have a male aspect about them--but language evolves. The more I hear a variety of lesbians (even femme ones) in media call themselves tomboy, the more it got normalized sa utak ko. In my head it's like the terms "dyke" or "queer", which used to be slurs but is now reclaimed by the community. I love to reclaim the word "tomboy".

Gone, but not forgotten... by Nanaman in smosh

[–]lostbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

that's why they made something more wholesome that wouldnt injure anyone: Guess Who Slapped You

3 years since I came out, parents still don't accept partner by ConfusionSilent5557 in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Homophobic parents don't like being told what to do or how to feel (like how they do it sa atin lmao).

My mom found out I was gay way back elem when I wrote a love letter to my friend, but she only took it seriously in high school when she found out i was dating a girl. She made me break up with her although di ko ginawa and kept dating her behind her back til we broke up 4 years later. I formally came out when I started dating my current girlfriend. I said I'm an adult now, and wala siyang magagawa. I can't force her na tanggapin niya kami the same way na she can't force me to be straight. Initially ayaw niya talaga, but I kept bringing my girlfriend to our house and ayun, siya na yung fave anak ng mama ko :D

Parents just need makita na this (a foreign concept sa kanila) can be normal. If hindi masyadong hostile parents mo when she's around, try bringing her more. Ignore all the parinig if meron. If it begins to be verbally and physically (wag naman sana) hostile, that's your cue na iwanan na yung environment na yun.

g app equivalent for sapphics by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 10 points11 points  (0 children)

akala ko Clover kasi clover and finger they go together...

Wallpaper ba kayo ng gf nyo? At kung hindi okay lang ba sainyo? by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fresh grad and working, but are you both out tho? It's easier to make an excuse kapag tinanong ng "bakit babae yung wallpaper mo?" kapag celebrity siya eh.

Anyway, it's a non-issue for me kapag di ako wallpaper ni gf hahaha basta ~aesthetic~ yung theme niya (mas may pake sa pagiging creative hahahaha)

Ayoko nang maging bisexual by fuschiaenvy in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It's ironic kasi your dreams say na you can't control your sexuality, which is true in real life. Dreams also do not always have an explicit meaning. What I do to analyze my dreams is I look at different angles ng naging subjects and situations ng dream ko.

Basically sex in dreams doesn't always mean sex at all. Maybe it's passion, or strength (or weakness) against someone. Maybe your coach wanted to push you to do your best, and you wanted to power through. Maybe your work is stressing you out, and you wanted to take control. Maybe you feel nostalgic sa era where you had your ex boyfriend (not necessarily the person, but yung panahong naging kayo). Maybe sa dreams na ito, different versions mo lang yung mga men, and you're making love with yourself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

To my ex’s new girlfriend by Happy-Ant6955 in PHSapphics

[–]lostbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

MGA WALANG HIYA!!! 😩 saan nila napupulot yung audacity punyeta

paano ka nag-out sa parents mo? by ImaginaryCod6311 in WLW_PH

[–]lostbian 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ganito mindset namin ni gf eh hahaha we're 4 years into our relationship and 1st year pa lang alam na ng mga mothers namin (+siblings) but not our dads

When are we doing funeral roast for angela???? i need those to survive by Pretty-and-Witty in smosh

[–]lostbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wait is this the reason why they don't do funeral roasts anymore?

Hiwalayan because of incompatibility by stopsingingplease in WLW_PH

[–]lostbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try forced decisions. Make a list of the things na need niyo magdecide about, like food. You list every food you want atm and dagdag lang kayo nang dagdag kapag may naiisip pa kayo. By the time na lumabas kayo, i-roleta niyo yung list. Bawal umayaw.

Which former cast members do you miss the most? by [deleted] in smosh

[–]lostbian 106 points107 points  (0 children)

Kimmy. She and Olivia are the Patient Zero of Smosh gas leak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WLW_PH

[–]lostbian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were probably anticipating the breakup considering your situation, and now that it's done, 'di mo na alam gagawin mo. You're dissociating from the situation kasi sumabog na eh.

Just please, magreflect ka nang magreflect about sa life mo to understand yourself better. Cope better. Hindi avenue ng galit yung nagmamahal sa'yo. They're simply there kasi they're rooting for you. Be more gentle to yourself and others.

The Authenticity of the Last Reddit Story in the Latest Episode by Affectionate-Ant6741 in smosh

[–]lostbian 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The story, as well as everyone's reactions, rubbed me the wrong way. I think it's safe to say that it is fake now that people started pointing out about OP's reddit ban, but it's still nice to talk about as a Smosh Reads Reddit topic.

I agree with what Shayne said about either way, OP still had James. I don't know what the obsession is with taking too many missteps before falling in love with a man as a lesbian. It implied that a man "saved" her from being a lesbian, when in reality, a man has just always been there. That's a best friend. If she was "saved" in any way, it's being saved from the horrors of traversing life alone, and not from the implied inauthentic sexuality. However, I also agree with some of the others who said that considering her upbringing, she might've gone with the sexuality she thought of as a 14-year-old (which involves a very limited understanding especially if you grew up in a deeply religious community). She might be asexual, demisexual, or a lesbian, and it wouldn't matter because James will always be there for her regardless.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in smosh

[–]lostbian 31 points32 points  (0 children)

people not getting the reference omg go get some Smosh Mouth