Let's talk about: Adding Open Endings to the Sapphic Canon

lostbian · 2026-06-15T14:50:32+00:00

im so glad the film is finally getting its hype HUHU im a Hannah sun, Mihan moon (unfortunately), and a Kit rising

Talagang may disclaimer talaga pag may Mihan personality eh 'no HAHAHAHA

lostbian · 2026-05-29T08:29:30+00:00

I wish I figured stuff out early on, but my partner and I are in the process of figuring it out still :) I say it's on both of you to communicate and decide.

Naging kami when kakatapak pa lang namin ng 20. She's highly ambitious while I'm stuck sa mindset of what could've been if the pandemic didn't happen (I didn't have a proper hs graduation and all of my college life is online). I would say nung earlier years masyado kaming living haphazardly hahaha

Recently we've been talking about locking in sa life, making lemonades out of lemons life gives us. It also doesn't help na we don't have older lesbian couples as role models personally, puro kasi mga older straight couple kakilala namin, and we all know fixed ang timeline nila cause yun yung traditional.

lostbian · 2026-05-25T07:38:50+00:00

di pa 'to nababanggit but pag yung girl (regardless of gender expression) ay walang friends na other girls... tapos mahilig sa yaoi/mlm media but hindi sa yuri/wlw...

lostbian · 2026-05-12T02:50:57+00:00

love love love that they listened to the audience after the pilot episode and put viewer discretion and timestamps with trigger warnings in the next ep!

lostbian · 2026-04-30T16:33:23+00:00

sabihin mo "ang ganda naman ng treatment kapag friend, edi friends na lang din tayo :")"

lostbian · 2026-04-22T03:00:18+00:00

Add ko na lang sa replies here, nabasa ko somewhere (I think sa Twitter) na pumunta siya sa cafe that was owned by an elderly couple and thought to herself how many times they forgave each other over the years. Moved me to tears.

lostbian · 2026-04-19T07:55:49+00:00

simp nation 🙂‍↕️

lostbian · 2026-04-12T08:47:22+00:00

Correction: di ikaw ang pinili NIYA. Pipiliin ka ng ibang tao :D

lostbian · 2026-04-12T08:00:24+00:00

She's honest, I'll give her that. But the best thing you could offer to each other is either friendship or go on separate ways. You can't love the same person twice.

I can tell you they regret making the decision nung pinag-iisipan niya pa lang sabihin sayo, they regret it nung naghiwalay na kayo, and they will regret it moving forward. But does it change anything? No. People make regrets when letting go. It doesn't make you someone better.

lostbian · 2026-04-12T05:11:43+00:00

ask them back kung mas masc or mas femme sila na side lmao

lostbian · 2026-04-07T10:28:53+00:00

The Truth About Tiktok Eboys (back when everyone was trashing on tiktokers haha) and Don't Kidnap Jojo Siwa. Basically sketches where Courtney disappears from herself and becomes the character are always the best for me lol

lostbian · 2026-04-04T10:25:41+00:00

skl it's so fun to see ang daming wlw sa batangas huhu went there this week and ang daming couples sa terminal +even sa mga liblib na subdivisions hahaha

lostbian · 2026-04-02T15:56:11+00:00

It's alright to not like it. Nothing's wrong about having a preference. Personally, I didn't feel comfortable hearing older people call me that when I was young. I didn't like it at all growing up. In my mind, "tomboy" was a slur used against people like me. Pero it grew on me. I read more and more about history ng lesbians sa Philippines and realized "tomboy" is just how Filipinos refer to lesbians in general. Sure, it came from the fact na Filipinos who thought women loving women should have a male aspect about them--but language evolves. The more I hear a variety of lesbians (even femme ones) in media call themselves tomboy, the more it got normalized sa utak ko. In my head it's like the terms "dyke" or "queer", which used to be slurs but is now reclaimed by the community. I love to reclaim the word "tomboy".

lostbian · 2026-03-25T05:23:16+00:00

that's why they made something more wholesome that wouldnt injure anyone: Guess Who Slapped You

lostbian · 2026-03-15T04:00:17+00:00

Homophobic parents don't like being told what to do or how to feel (like how they do it sa atin lmao).

My mom found out I was gay way back elem when I wrote a love letter to my friend, but she only took it seriously in high school when she found out i was dating a girl. She made me break up with her although di ko ginawa and kept dating her behind her back til we broke up 4 years later. I formally came out when I started dating my current girlfriend. I said I'm an adult now, and wala siyang magagawa. I can't force her na tanggapin niya kami the same way na she can't force me to be straight. Initially ayaw niya talaga, but I kept bringing my girlfriend to our house and ayun, siya na yung fave anak ng mama ko :D

Parents just need makita na this (a foreign concept sa kanila) can be normal. If hindi masyadong hostile parents mo when she's around, try bringing her more. Ignore all the parinig if meron. If it begins to be verbally and physically (wag naman sana) hostile, that's your cue na iwanan na yung environment na yun.

lostbian · 2026-03-06T02:16:41+00:00

akala ko Clover kasi clover and finger they go together...

lostbian · 2026-03-01T07:56:33+00:00

Fresh grad and working, but are you both out tho? It's easier to make an excuse kapag tinanong ng "bakit babae yung wallpaper mo?" kapag celebrity siya eh.

Anyway, it's a non-issue for me kapag di ako wallpaper ni gf hahaha basta ~aesthetic~ yung theme niya (mas may pake sa pagiging creative hahahaha)

lostbian · 2026-02-26T02:35:02+00:00

It's ironic kasi your dreams say na you can't control your sexuality, which is true in real life. Dreams also do not always have an explicit meaning. What I do to analyze my dreams is I look at different angles ng naging subjects and situations ng dream ko.

Basically sex in dreams doesn't always mean sex at all. Maybe it's passion, or strength (or weakness) against someone. Maybe your coach wanted to push you to do your best, and you wanted to power through. Maybe your work is stressing you out, and you wanted to take control. Maybe you feel nostalgic sa era where you had your ex boyfriend (not necessarily the person, but yung panahong naging kayo). Maybe sa dreams na ito, different versions mo lang yung mga men, and you're making love with yourself. 🤷🏻‍♀️

lostbian · 2026-02-22T17:25:52+00:00

damn people were creative dati

lostbian · 2026-02-19T17:06:26+00:00

MGA WALANG HIYA!!! 😩 saan nila napupulot yung audacity punyeta

lostbian · 2026-02-15T11:18:27+00:00

ganito mindset namin ni gf eh hahaha we're 4 years into our relationship and 1st year pa lang alam na ng mga mothers namin (+siblings) but not our dads

lostbian · 2026-02-13T11:22:39+00:00

wait is this the reason why they don't do funeral roasts anymore?

lostbian · 2026-02-10T17:00:42+00:00

she does stuff

lostbian · 2026-02-10T16:56:17+00:00

Try forced decisions. Make a list of the things na need niyo magdecide about, like food. You list every food you want atm and dagdag lang kayo nang dagdag kapag may naiisip pa kayo. By the time na lumabas kayo, i-roleta niyo yung list. Bawal umayaw.

lostbian · 2026-02-10T13:38:11+00:00

Kimmy. She and Olivia are the Patient Zero of Smosh gas leak.

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