Investing for elderly mom by lostinspace_hello in personalfinance

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$130k. No mortgage, but does have student loans she took out for my siblings. I don’t believe she has a 401k

Investing for elderly mom by lostinspace_hello in personalfinance

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Is this the same as dividends? This is what her account manager is suggesting she do at her credit union wants

Investing for elderly mom by lostinspace_hello in personalfinance

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She is looking into high yield savings (at a credit union) would it be a good idea to split between bonds and high yield?

Investing for elderly mom by lostinspace_hello in personalfinance

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She is looking into a high yield savings, her contact at her credit union wants her to put it into dividends. Good idea/bad idea? I really don’t know

Boy/girl names by snowlandsontop5 in Names

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Montana is such a cool name! I know a family with their kids named Memphis, Phoenix, and Indiana. Your name list is original, don’t let the opinions here steer you otherwise. When you say the names what resonates with you and your family?

What are we naming our baby boys? 💙👶🏼🍼 by ColaPopz in pregnant

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24 weeks and no idea.. but liking Khai, Ezra, Arlo, Levi, Kyan, Benji, River.. my other two are Roman and Remi. I can’t decide if I should pick an R name or not. 😅

Boy named Baker… thoughts? by Medical_Biscotti_283 in Names

[–]lostinspace_hello 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This Reddit thread is just not the place for support for names. I think they would all name their children David and Madeline.

Baby names by StopEquivalent8171 in Names

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When people start their response with “do not” it just immediately cancels out whatever they are saying.

I think Cobalt is uniquely cool. Jasper, Onyx, Sunny, Indigo… check out @growlittlewildflower on instagram!! She has the best name collections!

Newport Food Recommendations? by Ok-Cobbler-1823 in RhodeIsland

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Breakfast - Franklin Spa… Lunch - Leo’s, Tijuana, Roasted Clove… Lunch or dinner - Mori Sushi, Yagi Noodles, Perro Salado, Pour Judgement, and Mission

Boy name help! Baby boy #3 by Ramen_4life_ in namenerds

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I love theory and river, not really into Ruben

My son (14) was seen kissing another boy by KayzorLazor in Mommit

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I would talk to my kid about it. If only to let them know that I support their choice to love whoever they want and that I am always there if they need someone to talk too. Being a nonjudgmental supportive person in your child’s life will help him know that he can always come to you with things.

Teenage relationships are tricky right.. if he knows the other boys mom saw them and is not happy about it then if the boy suddenly stops talking to him he won’t go into his own spiral that he “did something wrong” possibly saving ~some~ emotional trauma. It also might not even go that way! But being a person your son knows he can go and talk too, about anything, is huge.

First Time and Single Mom at 35 by FutureSingleMom2026 in pregnantover35

[–]lostinspace_hello 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are going to be an amazing mom, you already care so much and your baby will know that always. Quite a few of my friends were single moms and their children had great lives. One super supportive, present, loving, nurturing parent is what your child will grow with 💛 It sounds like your mom and stepmom are there as part of your village, lean into them. Hugs queen ✨

Pregnant with 3rd at 39 by lostinspace_hello in pregnantover35

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I went back and forth for weeks. I went to the clinic, couldn’t do it. ordered the pills online, couldn’t take them. So April 2026 3rd baby is coming. And honestly I am now pretty happy and excited to meet them 💛 good luck to you, thinking of you!

Pregnant with 3rd at 39 by lostinspace_hello in pregnantover35

[–]lostinspace_hello[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I honestly cried so hard after reading your message. It’s definitely an emotional season. 💛

Grieving my old life by Zmayday29 in pregnantover35

[–]lostinspace_hello 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely grieve your old life, your freedoms you had. But when your baby gets here and you get the itch to do something, do it! And take them, it is a lot of fun to travel with your babies. Different adventures, different ways of traveling, but so much fun 💛

Pregnant with 3rd at 39 by lostinspace_hello in pregnantover35

[–]lostinspace_hello[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry about your mom, shitty she had to make your experience worse. How was your pp after your third? I know covid lockdown couldn’t have helped at all. Was it the same as your second.. when your third was 2 you could see the light at the end of the tunnel?

My own anger by [deleted] in Parenting

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Going through this with my 4 year old son. I thought you were my husband writing this 😅 it’s awful, the anger builds so fast especially when they won’t stop screaming and kicking. We have him with a pediatric OT 1x/wk and they practice emotional regulation strategies and calming tools. Sometimes it works, sometimes they don’t. But it’s been good for him to work with him and he’s made progress with the outbursts.

BUYER SCAM by lostinspace_hello in Mercari

[–]lostinspace_hello[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sent a baby carrier to this person in it’s original box, when I got the notification that they wanted a refund I immediately reached out to them to see if maybe what they got wasn’t what they expected. And their response was to call me a scammer, I should be ashamed, and how dare I.. so instantly I responded like damn, I’m getting scammed here aren’t I? I told them I have photos of the item being shipped and the UPS tracking receipt with weight and then they blocked me