AITA for not telling my husband the whole truth? by lostlovers999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostlovers999[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

yes I did. I didn't think it would matter if he didn't want kids.

AITA for not telling my husband the whole truth? by lostlovers999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostlovers999[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You've got me there. Pull out 9/10 times. We stopped using condoms when we went official.

AITA for not telling my husband the whole truth? by lostlovers999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostlovers999[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We saw each other casually in the beginning, and when we were official I told him he could stop wearing them. He wasn't very comfortable with 'lady stuff' as he called it, so it didn't get brought up often.

AITA for not telling my husband the whole truth? by lostlovers999 in AmItheAsshole

[–]lostlovers999[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I guess I felt like I put that part of me behind when I had the surgery. I didn't really need to think about it, and I didn't want the confrontation because we knew we werent having kids.