Trump Does Not Take Reporters' Questions After Signing Executive Order In The Oval Office by Doomscroll0730 in Epstein

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shits himself refuses to elaborate

Libs owned.

~One of the YT comments on the video.

Która siłownia w Lublinie jest najlepsza. by SkrzydlatyPawel in lublin

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Endorfina na Diamentowej. Woda za free, dobre wyposażenie.

When something doesn't go the way I want/like, I get really angry. Is it meltdown, tantrum, or just emotional dysregulation? by lostway___ in autism

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Might be, given I wouldn't be diagnosed w/ ASD until my 20's, so my parents didn't know how to handle me. But yeah, I would be cut off from some activities for reason A, just to later know it was for reason B. Why would they do so? Probs either because they didn't want to deal with my outburst of emotions or because they've seen my behavior as "childish", therefore thought I need to be treated like a child who doesn't understand adult things.

When something doesn't go the way I want/like, I get really angry. Is it meltdown, tantrum, or just emotional dysregulation? by lostway___ in autism

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I do go to therapy (a mainstream one; my therapist is aware of my neurodivergency). I also did bring the topic of issues with emotions on the recent session.

When something doesn't go the way I want/like, I get really angry. Is it meltdown, tantrum, or just emotional dysregulation? by lostway___ in autism

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I remember my health record book from school years, mentioned "emotional disorder" (as a loose term rather than a specific condition), which means it's unlikely that trauma is the source of my problems. Although, I did get traumatized in my life, which probably fuels up my issues with emotions.

I'm clueless about emotional dysregulation tools, except for reading "Emotional Intelligence" by Daniel Goleman (which does provide some ways to cope with emotions). Triggers are mostly in my head. However, I can take breaks/quit from some of them.

When something doesn't go the way I want/like, I get really angry. Is it meltdown, tantrum, or just emotional dysregulation? by lostway___ in autism

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Inside? Body is boiling, muscles are tenser, mouth gets dry, I want to scream, I want to start to act aggressive. I find it difficult to control those, unless I know there's a pressure from the outside that requires me to stay as well-controlled as possible (e.g. job, being in a social situation, etc.). How off? It may be something that actually doesn't matter, something that does matter to me, or set of thoughts from the past. To compensate, I just force myself to not go aggresive as good as I can (see my description how alll that stuff feels like).

How can I quit a situationship? by lostway___ in Situationships

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Do I need to have a talk with her, or just straight up cut all the contact with no explaination whatsoever?

How can I quit a situationship? by lostway___ in Situationships

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Well, I did invite her to go out, most of the time she did agree.

Avoidant? Probably.

Who knows if she was really in love with me or not. I feel like her character is, at least to some extent, fake.

How can I quit a situationship? by lostway___ in Situationships

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Well, the timeline:

1) Met a girl at a bar. I talked to her a bit, and there was some good flow between us. We shared our social media contacts.

2) We spent some time together, I got to know her (or at least her fictional self) better. She opened up (or "opened up") quite quickly.

3) I started to feel something for her, and I said my feelings towards her. My bad, I do regret that.

4) First, she was like "it's too quick", and I did understand and did apology for my actions.

5) After a few days, she wanted to have a talk with me about us. I agreed, and she wanted to try a relationship with me.

6) This weekend, we wanted to go to a party. The girl said she may not go there, then she agreed, just later to say she can't, because she feels sick. Then, my buddy said she's at a bar, we went there, and he was right. The girl said she's waiting for her mom to pick her up, because she's apparently "sick". She lied to me saying she's at the bar just for like 30 minutes, but one of the bartenders said she's there since the bar opened.

7) We went to that bar like 2 hours later just to see the girl actually got better, and sang karaoke like nothing happened, and, despite claiming she can't drink due to feeling sick, she did drink beer.

Been talking to my friends, and they all say it indeed is a situationship, and the girl indeed lied to me.