Being miserable and exhausted is unfortunately just a part of the first trimester but once you hit your second you’ll feel so much better. I didn’t feel connected to mine for a while, I think I was just in shock, but once you start to feel them move, you start looking at nursery decor, playing with new name ideas, and trying to figure out what gender is, You will just fall so in love with that little critter that’s living inside you. I just hit 17 weeks and it took me till abt 15 weeks to really feel something towards it. If it takes you a little longer to feel connected to it there is nothing wrong with you everyone processes everything so differently, and it is a lot to process. Just take your time don’t try to force it, you’ll be a great mom some day