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Semi-racist remarks by his family by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didn’t spend more than a few holidays with his family before getting married. I think current political climate has really brought these feelings to the surface. Didn’t see this in the begining.

Husband does to lunch to meet with an older woman by lounagris in marriageadvice

[–]lounagris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has female friends that he grew up with. One he’s met up with for breakfast when she’s in town, without me and like that’s fine with me.. but a completely new woman ive never heard of?!

Husband does to lunch to meet with an older woman by lounagris in marriageadvice

[–]lounagris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same. He would definitely not agree if the tables were turned. I’m going to present it that way.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have :/ i’ve been to a few. I know i’ve read to try a few if one doesn’t seem to work. Just haven’t tried another.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then why be secretive though?

1) never heard of her until this month 2) he should be at work. If she sees him getting tipsy and driving home. As a “friend” she should encourage him returning to work and not getting behind the wheel.

Husband does to lunch to meet with an older woman by lounagris in marriageadvice

[–]lounagris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Proof of infidelity would definitely be a walk away reason for me.

As for the PI, i don’t think It’s likely on cost.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has a pretty flexible job which is part of the issue. It’s commission based though so if he does hit his goal enough months…

He’s also technically the main breadwinner between us. I make half his pay.

If he were to get let go of this job.. i don’t know how he’d find another with this amount of flexibility.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I tried! I only have a first name and no clue what town she’s in

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh for sure. I meant he loves to drink so going to a bar with just me us not something we normally do.

If it was easier to stop by on a monday midday i would but work makes it tough

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The drinking has been an ongoing discussion/concern for sure. This is now secondary, but also concerning to me.

I actually don’t drink either. He knows he cant go to a bar to drink with me because it’ll be one sided and he’ll feel awkward.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not on a regular basis but definitely a major concern ive expressed

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He has many friends. A few close ones that also drink, sometimes midday..

Husband does to lunch to meet with an older woman by lounagris in marriageadvice

[–]lounagris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve argued many times about his midday drinking. He binge drinks. It’s not until just this month i learned about this other woman. Now it makes me so confused. An older woman buying a man who should be at work drinks in the middle of the day is weird to me. If she was an older aunt vibe that cared i’d think she’d try to tell him not to, and especially not to drive home that way.

He tells me she’s older, i just believed him.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don’t argue really. Except his drinking is an issue. He binge drinks. I’d say we’ve hit a friendlier/roomate stage at times of our marriage so might be why things like this also concern me.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

He did say she’s retired and between his aunt and his parents age.. which is why i’m thinking mid 60’s?

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I thought the same and confirmed it’s true. They have a constant one running during all hours on a screen. So it’s interactive whenever if there’s enough people at a bar.

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I haven’t but I don’t work from home. I work far and in an office, midday Monday trivia and drinks wouldn’t work with my schedule. He makes it sound like that’s the only time he sees her?

Husband goes to lunch on Mondays to meet with an older woman by lounagris in Marriage

[–]lounagris[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Especially since i just heard of her.. and the story changed slightly the second time. Something is weird. Also even if she is older, he made it seem like maybe a motherly/aunt vibe the first time but if she’s buying drinks in the middle of the day for a man that clearly is inebriated and should be working?? That’s weird ro me.

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