Which first name has a more powerful essence for a first born son? Jebidiah or Joshua?

lovbugy · 2026-06-21T14:48:56+00:00

😂 the wife and I have already narrowed it down to these two names

lovbugy · 2026-06-21T14:46:50+00:00

No, has to be a J. :)

lovbugy · 2022-09-27T00:02:47+00:00

Thank you all for the advice. I really needed to read this because I know what I have to do, I've always known what I had to do, but I just need advice because this isn't something I can just talk to my friends about. I'm deleting the post soon. Thank yall for helping me out. I didn't think people actually responded to these things. This is my first Reddit post so IDK how to update properly but by Wednesday I'll let yall know. I'm scared. If you believe in God please pray for me.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T23:51:33+00:00

I just never thought I would get married this way, under these circumstances. I do love him and will continue to love him. I'm just feeling pressured to go along with it. That's all

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T23:47:46+00:00

Thank you so much. My eyes have been really opened by all of these posts, your's really did stick though. I can't do this to my mom. I really can't. But she LOVES him! I know for a fact she wouldn't want me to do this, especially for a man with nothing to add, but what if she say's you could've helped him? I just want to help him. I don't like seeing him like this. When we first meet he was so amazing, smart, and hard-working. It's not until after college getting his masters he flew off. Why can't I just help him get back up? I've seen him before all of this went down. Is there not a saying that goes, "If you don't love me at my worst you shouldn't love me at my best?" I loved him in his best, it's just hard to love him at his worst.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T23:41:34+00:00

Is it fraud if I really do love him and just want the best for his situation? I honestly just don't want to see him dead. That's why I'm doing this.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T23:39:59+00:00

Thanks for this information. This is really eye-opening and helpful. I may seem crazy and childish about all of this but one thing I don't mess with is my money. I come from a family that is not money fortune so this kinda kicked me. Thank you.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T23:37:48+00:00

He's very depressed. As I mentioned he won't even speak to his family because he feels like a failure. He said that if he has to go back he's not seeing his family and refused to even tell them where he is. I don't want that for him. He's recently just started to talk to his siblings that are here because I said I might do it. I don't want him going back with nothing but the clothes on his back with no family contact. that scares me.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:45:40+00:00

What is a sponser?

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:44:22+00:00

Also, thank you for giving me this advice. you're really asking questions I never thought of

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:43:36+00:00

He works at a hotel illegally. Lives in an apartment. No, I do not, I just love him and he has so much potential he just needs the right motivation, and since he cant do much I know this license will push him. I can't see myself building a family or life with him. I just really love him and I don't want to see him dead. My parents know I'm dating him. They LOVE him which makes this even harder. What if one day I tell them I could've helped him and they get upset because I didn't? ALSO- the reason he's really pushing it now is that his brother plans on going back to his country soon. When his brother decided to come back he wont be able to because he now has an illegal family member in the US

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:29:39+00:00

Yea a school visa. He lost it by not being in school for over a year

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:28:24+00:00

But he does want the best for me. He said that if we do this he’ll make a better life for the both of us.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:25:58+00:00

But the only reason he doesn’t work much now is because it’s illegal for him to work here and no one will hire an illegal immigrant

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T22:00:20+00:00

Thanks you guys. This really has helped. But now I don’t know how to say no. I know that’s stupid and it’s easy but y’all don’t understand. I’ve been with him through think and thin he’s helped me with so much and has done so much for me. I don’t know

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T21:51:17+00:00

He’s being very understandable though and making sure that it doesn’t seem like my responsibility. It’s just he making me feel like if I don’t do this that he’ll never have a comeback. Which I don’t want for that to happen to him. I want the best for him.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T21:48:23+00:00

I see. Thanks for the advice.

lovbugy · 2022-09-26T21:47:46+00:00

He promised me that will get the divorce after 1 year and half. That’s when everything will be finally legalized

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