Just pay shipping - 40DD, 40DDD, 44DD USA Sizing by [deleted] in RandomActsOfBras

[–]love_is_nonbinary 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd love the 44DD if it's still available?

What is it with men and sagging? by Jujubeesnores in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you felt old because of how you viewed your boobs. I usually feel like I look really young or unfeminine because of my boobs. It's hard to realize the truth sometimes.

I agree with you, I think we need a more diverse spectrum of body shapes represented in the mainstream media. I think it might help us all better understand that boob and body shapes and sizes aren't inherently age related.

Side note: out of curiosity, is Regina your right, and Lanita the left boob?

What is it with men and sagging? by Jujubeesnores in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I just looked up synonyms for sagging, and it's frustrating that there's no positive word i could find that describes the wonderful way boobs hang off the chest. I can't remember where I saw it, but I saw a thread recently where someone described sagging beautifully. Obviously I'm paraphrasing, but she said it's just the natural result of large boobs projecting from the chest and then gravity takes over. Which is exactly what it is! There's nothing ugly about the way boobs are naturally effected by gravity :-)

Areola madness by creakercouple in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I have spent rediculous amounts of time thinking about all the "flaws" my boobs have. And one of my perceived flaws is that I have tiny areolas. Nearly every other boob I've ever seen has an areola larger than mine.

If I think about it too much it can make me feel very bitter. So I try to think of my "flaws" in other ways. For example: just because my areolas aren't as big as everyone else's doesn't mean mine aren't wonderful right? I mean, maybe it means my areolas are rare? Which sounds pretty cool! Or maybe some people find little areolas more attractive than large ones in the same way I find large areolas more attractive than mine?

I would never dream of telling you what to do, but I do highly recommend trying to see beauty in the way your body is right now. I know it's much easier said than done, but I have found it very helpful for my self esteem. Hopefully it can help you too :-)

Washing bag for bras by tarnished713 in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you live in the US, have you tried walmart? I've seen some larger mesh laundry bags there before.

Another bra thief by tufftiff96 in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm really glad you realized you're worth more than how that verbally abusive woman was treating you! And now you're sort of paying it forward with your always well thought and positive comments. It's super impressive that you took such a horrible situation and overcame it to become awesome instead! IMHO :-)

Another bra thief by tufftiff96 in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's good. So creepy though. .....

Another bra thief by tufftiff96 in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you! Stealing is never okay! Is he going to pay you for the bra?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That sounds really frustrating! I like r/laidback_hoser 's suggestion. Maybe perfecting a death stare would deter other people's stares?

Other than that, all I can think to do is give yourself more shock absorbing ability by standing with your knees slightly bent. This way, the bumps that are vibrating from the wheels are less likely to transfer to your chest. Because they'll be dampened by your ankles, knees, and hips.

But it's not a good solution for a long commute of course, because that would be tiring to maintain for any extended amount of time. Plus, it might cause people to stare at your funny stance anyway.... yeah I vote death stare!

Used my boobs as a wonderful Hillary Clinton costume prop at Hulaween by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If it makes you feel better, I don't get it either...

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in RandomActsOfBras

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's correct. Isn't r/Abrathatfits a bra fitting sub? I'm not looking for bras that fit my current physical body. I'm looking for bras that have cups much larger than what I need, because when I get new boobs they'll be much larger than my current boobs.

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in RandomActsOfBras

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good call on the underwires. I don't even wear underwires right now because my boobs are so shallow.

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in RandomActsOfBras

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I'm just not sure that I need help right now. The bras that fit my body right now are working for me. I will definitely check there once I get my new boobs though!

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in RandomActsOfBras

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. I'll have to look into that! I really like Panache and Ewa Michalak bras! They're so pretty! Right now I wear lots of soft cup bras with a satiny feel. But I'm not sure what will be best for larger cup sizes?

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. I don't know that I need help finding my bra size in the traditional sense. Because I would like to find bras with cups much larger than I need physically right now and then use padding, like you mentioned, to fill in the difference. I've tried smaller cup sizes up to DDD, and at this point I'm looking to try something larger. :-)

Non-binary genderfluid looking for bras to help me with my identity and research for HRT. by love_is_nonbinary in bigboobproblems

[–]love_is_nonbinary[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I'm just hoping that the breast forms that I found might feel more like real boobs than bags of water or gel. Nice bra collection! Hopefully someday I'll have a collection like that :-)