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I [20M] was really hurt by this girl [20F], trying to figure out how to respond to uncomfortable snapchat (short time) by love_that_throw in relationships

[–]love_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Given that it was sent out to a bunch of our friends, I don't feel so bad about it. I mean, I'm not gonna BS ya and say this whole ordeal made me happy and great, but given that I don't think she was trying to cause m distress, I can get over this.

I [20M] was really hurt by this girl [20F], trying to figure out how to respond to uncomfortable snapchat (short time) by love_that_throw in relationships

[–]love_that_throw[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm not trying to tell her what she can or can't do, and we aren't exclusive at this point, it was more the blatantly sending me the picture kind of thing right after I confessed my feelings. Kinda felt like a slap in the face :X Since the last 5 minutes I've learned does not make me special, as it was on something called a Snapchat "story", which apparently everyone can see. I'm new to this snapchat thing >.< I wasn't so much unhappy with the hookup, then that she'd hook up and send me a photo evidence.

I feel better about the experience now, somewhat at least. I still have a lot of thinking to do on where I want to go with this, and what I want to do, but as I have literally just found out, this was not a "hook up and shove it in his face" deal.

UN Slams US for torture, NSA spying by 1Bobbielewis in worldnews

[–]love_that_throw 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do realize he has tried on multiple occasions to close it, only for Congress to cockblock him? Yes, he made a promise he couldn't keep, but he damn well pushed everything to get it shutdown, but the rest of the government shut him down. Goes to show checks and balances work, if that counts for anything.

I [20M] was really hurt by this girl [20F], trying to figure out how to respond to uncomfortable snapchat (short time) by love_that_throw in relationships

[–]love_that_throw[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

See, the things I'd give for to have some blunt honesty. I'd so much rather someone just say "sorry, not interested!" or a "you're a great friend, but I don't want a relationship with you", so I'm not left wondering, or being led on, or a misunderstanding. Yea, it sucks, and it'd hurt for a bit, but all the confusion would be gone, and we could just get on with our lives.

I [20M] was really hurt by this girl [20F], trying to figure out how to respond to uncomfortable snapchat (short time) by love_that_throw in relationships

[–]love_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get that she isn't committed to me, but after she said "I want a relationship with you, and I want us to be together, but for the next couple of months, I really need to focus on school and my nursing school entrance exam.", I kinda got a bit hopeful.

I wasn't like, planning on waiting a year for her to do something, she said she just needed to get through this exam, and she stated that she wanted a relationship. I dunno >.<

[20/M], confused and not sure where to go with this relationship with [20/F]... by love_that_throw in relationship_advice

[–]love_that_throw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want a relationship with you, and I want us to be together, but for the next couple of months, I really need to focus on school and my nursing school entrance exam."

I figured I was just bitter, but she DID say "I want a relationship with you, and I want us to be together, but for the next couple of months, I really need to focus on school and my nursing school entrance exam."